Would You Go Out With You?

How Do You Create the Person of Your Dreams, that Unique Person You Want in Your Life?

I invite you to get pen and pater, and do the following:

1- Write down, every thing you want in that person, and then become it.

2- Define Love.

Every person has a different definition of what love is.

For some, love is related to need, for others sexuality, for others control, and dominance, for others success, …

These are only experiences we have, we look for, but they are not the feeling, and definition of love.

What is your definition of love?        

Imagine now that you have defined love, where do you want to go from here?

1- Write down the person you want to be/become

2- Define love, from a place of profound understanding, not past experiences?

3- Work on yourself every day, to become the most extraordinary version of yourself

4- Then, when you meet the person of your dreams, celebrate together, grow together, construct together

If, on the other side, you do not feel at your best, and you ‘need, want, must, should’ enter a relationship, you will pick someone that is apart, as you probably are also feeling emotionally, physically, mentally,.. apart.

What is best to do then?

Take time for yourself, spend time alone, get back in connection with your heart, your feelings, your emotions, and then, present yourself at your best.

Relax, and look at yourself in a mirror.        

The best way to go about this, is to take a mirror, and ask yourself these questions:

• Am I missing something?
• Am I not seeing myself in some way?
• Is there something in my mind, body, soul, that I’d like to change, improve?
• What’s the best version of myself?
• When was the last time I felt at the highest level of self-love, and self-appreciation?

With Love,

Helena

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