Would You Co-Create This Talk With Me?
A few weeks from now, I’ll be joining attendees from around the world at the African Women in Media conference. In addition to co-leading a few workshops on some of my favorite topics (including storytelling and coalition building), I’ll be speaking on a panel about continental initiatives and global movements like #MeToo and – spoiler alert – I’d love to hear your input.
We’ll be asking questions like “How might we challenge sexual harassment in the industry?” and “Which interventions are effective and which are not – and why?” The panel will bring together women from several countries to talk about gender discrimination and oppression in the media industry.
Aware of the facts that:
1) a week-long conference could be held on the topic of gender discrimination alone and we still wouldn’t cover all of the nuances; and
2) as the only American panelist, it is critical that I speak from more than my own personal experience,
I’m going to try something different with this post: rather than put complete thoughts on a topic here all at once, I’d like to make this a collaborative work-in-progress. I’ll review all of the comments as I’m preparing and will update the post along the way – and again after the conference to share insights from the conversation there.
Join me?
Let’s start with the fact that the #MeToo movement has grown into a major force around the world that has resulted in historical shifts, including many powerful men being held accountable for their inappropriate behavior. The sheer size and power of the movement highlights how widespread gender-based discrimination and oppression is, and how far we still need to go to fully address it. As we look globally, there are unique cultural challenges but also factors in common. There’s incredible potential to learn from and support one another around the world.
For my part, I’ll begin with a brief overview of #MeToo, starting in 2006 with its inspiring founder, Tarana Burke. I plan to share examples of tangible, positive results the movement has yielded, with an eye to factors that may have been overlooked or unknown along the way. Next, I’ll turn to the backlash, including what was surprising and what, sadly, was not. Lastly, I’ll take a look at where “we” are now – and there are many ways to define “we:” as the United States… as American women... as women in media.... as women as a whole... and as a planet.
(All that in 15 minutes? We'll see!)
Ok, marvelous readers. Let’s do this. (And in that “us,” I include everyone – all ages, genders, backgrounds, affiliations, etc.) I deeply value your thoughts, stories, ideas, #MustReads, and questions leading into this conversation. (And if you prefer to share directly, let’s connect!)
UPDATE - July 6, 2019: In trying to find a common definition of #MeToo, I'm finding instead a troubling trend: deeply angry and at times misogynistic dismissals of the movement. I'm disappointed but not terribly surprised by the troglodyte trolling on Urban Dictionary, but I expected more of Macmillan than an examined suggestion that the movement has "gone too far," as if geographic reach of a hashtag has anything to do with impact or the realities women across the U.S. and around the world continue to face:
As the presentation is taking shape, I'm encouraged to see positive legislative impacts at the national, state, and local levels - here's just one example "Tweaking nondisclosure agreements to limit how they may be used for harassment claims is an area of law previously untouched by lawmakers, yet six states (Arizona, Maryland, New York, Tennessee, Vermont and Washington) now have something on the books."?https://www.pewtrusts.org/en/research-and-analysis/blogs/stateline/2018/07/31/metoo-has-changed-our-culture-now-its-changing-our-laws
From Sweden - "In November 2017, a female Swedish Army veteran, Anna Berkestedt Jonsson, created a Facebook page inviting military women to share their stories of sexual harassment and assault with the hashtag #givaktochbitihop." From:?https://www.pulitzercenter.org/reporting/stand-attention-and-bite-bullet?utm_source=email&utm_medium=newsletter&utm_campaign=12919
"Every woman gets to choose her word. Every woman gets to choose how she describes it. This is my way of saying it. This is my word.?My word is 'fight.' My word is not the 'victim word.'" From:? https://www.nytimes.com/2019/06/27/podcasts/the-daily/e-jean-carroll-trump-interview.html
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5 年I once saw Alicia Rodis lead an amazing talk on #metoo through The Freestyle Lab series by NY Shakespeare Exchange. Maybe there’s a chance for collaboration here, too?
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5 年Wow, really admire this, Piper, and the invitation you've made here to co-create meaningful framing and conversation!? Here are a few things that came up for me:? - I think your observation that there are many ways to define "we" is so astute and important. I wonder about the "we" that intentionally invites men into this conversation and into communal healing spaces... Even when trauma and abuse is present, still, we are all connected... - One way to think about the question around interventions that are effective or not, and why, might be to note the importance of reflecting on (1) personal stories or specific examples, but then also (2) the broader patterns and forces at play in our human systems/society that impact efficacy. Trying to name and understand patterns that are at play on a larger scale may present an opportunity to identify different kinds of interventions that could hold potential for more systemic impact and also more broadly shared responsibility for action (especially given the international nature of this, would be very curious about patterns across different cultural contexts).? - Back to this, sorry.....but we are all connected......and this has become a communal trauma, beyond just something individuals are holding. Where are the spaces for communal healing where we can all learn new, healthier, more life giving patters and ways of existing together??? - You're fabulous <3 xxx