Worthy Awareness Matters
Jacquelyn Wieland
Leadership Growth Strategist and Thinking Partner | Executive Leadership, Coaching & Mentoring
Are you aware of your Internal filter that dictates your worthiness? How many of you have heard things through your lifetime by relatives, teachers, siblings, neighbors, shop keepers that landed on you with the lasting unintended consequence that deflated your worthiness? Most of us have confronted the evil statement of "You would be so "Blank" if "Blank".
My childhood backhanded compliment from relatives was " You would be so pretty if you would lose weight. Another personal favorite was "You are not smart enough to finish college". I am not sure where my confidence and worthiness came from but I knew that those people and their limiting beliefs of my potential did not serve me and I did not need to feel obligated to have relationships with them. My young adult solution to this was to take modeling classes and model on the side for a brief time. Oh yeah, I did complete graduate school and was offered scholarships for a doctorate program. For some reason that stuff fueled me instead of deflating me and I learned to disconnect from people that were not energtically aligned with me.
Over the last several weeks and months I have landed on the gift of filtering for worthiness as opposed to listening to hear comments that hold us down. It is time to check your worthy awareness and what and how you listen to comments or interrupt interactions. We each have bias in how we hear things and in turn filter them in alignment with how we perceive and value ourselves. What is your worthy awareness? What is the value you put on your internal self in contrast to the external world and those that you interact with? Whose statements do you carry forward with you? Is your head attic full of statements that do not serve you, making you question your value and worthiness? Have you chosen to keep things in your mind that is your shield of honor? They provide you resilience and continue to resonate" I am enough"," I am worthy," "I am valuable"," I can do whatever I put my focus and energy toward," " I have a purpose in this life", and "I will achieve it". Be worthy aware and if you are not, we should spend time together taking all of the junk out of the attic trunk so that you fill it with the currency that supports your worth.
Your awareness of your worthiness matters in how you influence and impact your journey, your relationship with others, and your significance in life. You control your attitude and the choices you make. Choose well!
Lets have a conversation! Jacquelyn Wieland
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