Is it worth complaining about?!

We tend to take all the things that goes right for granted and focus on the few things that goes wrong.

Instead, focus be grateful, thankful & appreciative for all the amazing things that goes right.

You will feel so much better when you stop focusing on every small thing that is not to your liking. Start enjoying everything that you have and be appreciative for those things.

If you have traveled to a poorer country, you would have experienced that most of inhabitants are cheerful. They will invite you to their home, feed you and have a lot of laughs.

With a total stranger, is this not amazing?

They have less than you but invites you to their home and don′t expect anything more than gratitude.

I just love that and I have adopted that way of being, appreciating the small things in life, opening my heart to whomever that comes in my path.

I will show you love and respect you no matter who you are or what title you have. You can be a CEO, janitor, salesperson, teacher, homeless, child, senior citizen, drug addict, lawyer etc.

In today’s society, social media is a big stress for many people. It makes you want more, forgetting all the wonderful things that you already have in your life. We let it consume us, never stopping to look how fortunate we are.

Today with #Covid19 we have approximately 3,5 billion journalists reporting all over the world with their views, their panic from their phones or computer.

You’re that journalist, everyone now days is a reporter, knows best & shares it with the world. All you need is internet.

This creates hysteria!

Back in the day we had the radio, tv & newspaper to give us the news. And then it was mostly locally with a section from around the world. The news spread took longer, today it takes less than a second.

Every time you have a thought that will have you complaining, take a minute to see if it is worth it.

If there is no WiFi at the cafe, don′t complain. Appreciate that you have the possibility to buy a coffee at a cafe.

When you want to complain about not having enough shoes to choose from, be appreciative that you have shoes.

When you want to complain about your standard of living, remember and appreciate that you have a place to call home.

When you feel like you want to complain, just say these words to yourself “I appreciate that I’m alive, I appreciate the people I love, I appreciate myself”.

Ask yourself questions why you are complaining. "Will this make me feel better?" "Will this make the person I'm complaining to feel better?" "Can I do something about it?" If yes, do something about it instead of complaining. If no, deal with it mentally and throw it in the trash.

You can say 10 “I appreciate/thankful for” and you’ll forget what you wanted to complain about and start finding purpose in your life. You will become a person that will see more light in your life and be aware of the darkness that constantly tries to pull you down.

Be the light in your life and you will shine bright in other people's life as well.

If you feel good, you will DO GOOD!

I know this sounds trivial but in a world where many have so much less than others, it is important to remember that you are fortunate to have the choice to choose between shoes.

Appreciative people are joyful people!

Who do you want to be, the one that brings darkness or the one that shines bright?

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