Working Women Are Judged by a Different Set of Criteria Than Men
Dr. Nuzhat Rahmat
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In many societies, especially in Asian countries, working women face unique challenges that men seldom encounter. Despite the progress made towards gender equality, the reality is that women are often held to a different standard in the workplace. This disparity manifests in several forms, including expectations around work-life balance, leadership style, and personal choices.
The Double Burden
In countries like Pakistan, India, and Bangladesh, cultural norms often place the primary responsibility of household duties on women, regardless of their professional commitments. A woman’s ability to manage both a career and family is scrutinized far more than her male counterparts, who are seldom questioned about their involvement in household chores or parenting. Women are expected to balance both worlds flawlessly, whereas men are often celebrated for focusing solely on their careers.
Leadership Style and Assertiveness
In leadership positions, women in Asian countries often face a dilemma. If they exhibit assertive behavior, they are labeled as aggressive or unfeminine. On the other hand, if they are collaborative and nurturing, they may be seen as weak or ineffective. Men in similar roles are praised for their decisiveness and strength. This double standard discourages many capable women from pursuing leadership roles, fearing backlash for not conforming to society's expectations.
The “Appearance” Trap
Another area where working women are judged more harshly is their appearance. In countries like Japan and South Korea, professional women are often expected to conform to traditional standards of beauty—perfectly groomed, dressed in a certain way, and maintaining a delicate balance of being professional but not overly assertive. Men, however, are rarely judged on their appearance to the same extent.
Career Gaps and Maternity Leave
Taking maternity leave is often seen as a career setback for women in many Asian societies. Despite laws supporting maternity leave, women returning to work after childbirth may face subtle biases from employers or colleagues. They may be perceived as less committed to their jobs, even though their male counterparts are never questioned about their commitment after becoming fathers.
Overcoming the Judgment
While these challenges exist, there is a growing movement to break these stereotypes. Organizations are increasingly recognizing the importance of gender diversity and inclusion, and women are steadily breaking through the barriers. Countries like the Philippines, where female representation in leadership roles is relatively high, offer hope for change across the region.
Ultimately, it’s essential for societies to evolve and acknowledge that men and women, though biologically different, deserve to be assessed by the same professional standards. Only by addressing these biases can we hope to create workplaces where everyone is judged by their skills, not their gender.
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3 周All the best Nuzhat do touch mobility challenges which refrain the female talent to take the leadership roles and how D&I initiatives are supporting or making a difference
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1 个月Great initiative! Looking forward to reading your insights on the challenges women face in the workplace. These are important conversations to drive change and create more inclusive environments.
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1 个月Excellent. Best wishes :)
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1 个月They often need to demonstrate competence and confidence to gain the same level of respect as their male counterparts. Working women frequently face expectations to balance professional responsibilities with family obligations, leading to additional pressure to excel in both areas. Women in leadership positions may encounter biases regarding their authority. Traits like assertiveness, often valued in men, can be perceived negatively in women, labeled as aggressive or unfeminine. Women are often judged for their choices regarding work-life balance, with societal expectations influencing perceptions of their commitment to their careers or families. Women may have less access to influential networks, which can impact their career advancement and opportunities compared to their male colleagues. Women often contend with stereotypes that can affect how their contributions are perceived, leading to an undervaluation of their skills and achievements. Women frequently earn less than men for similar roles, and the justification for these discrepancies is often scrutinized differently than for men. Women may face barriers when negotiating salaries and promotions, with societal norms influencing how assertiveness is perceived.