Work BFFs: How close is too close? Let's discuss the slippery slope of office friendships
Gianna Prudente
Early Career Development Editor at LinkedIn | Host of Let's Talk Offline
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We spend about 90,000 hours at work in our lifetime. Yeah, you read that right. That means we're spending a whole lot of time with our co-workers. So naturally, after a while, some of those co-workers take on a new title: work besties.?
Work friendships might even leave the confines of the office. You go to your teammate's wedding or hang out with your desk neighbor on the weekends. But here's the thing: navigating these relationships can be tricky when you're walking the line between personal and professional.?
How much is too much to share? What if your work bestie suddenly becomes your boss? There are a ton of dynamics to consider, which I didn't fully grasp until I started building bonds at work.
Gen Z's on the market for work besties
When I started my job over three years ago, I was definitely looking for work friends. Life immediately after college can feel pretty lonely, so I leaned into my work environment to make new connections. Turns out, I was far from alone in this quest.
LinkedIn data shows that younger workers are much more likely to say they need work friends. Some 55% of Gen Zers and 46% of millennials say so, compared to 34% of Gen Xers and 33% of baby boomers.
Most of my work friendships happened organically, especially with people around my age; we bonded over being in a similar phase of our careers. These friendships have totally boosted my job satisfaction and created a real sense of belonging.
This is a double-edged sword, though. When you form close relationships with people you work with, you get super invested. It's upsetting when you or they leave. You might also start to feel a certain degree of loyalty to the person, which could land you in some uncomfortable, sticky situations.
How to approach office friendships
Work friendships are clearly a slippery slope. They can increase your happiness and make you feel supported but also cause (avoidable) drama.
Jamé and I tackled this topic in the latest episode of Let's Talk Offline. We explored the nuances of work friendships and shared strategies for building meaningful connections while maintaining healthy boundaries.
Here are some highlights from our conversation:?
?? Listen to the full episode of Let's Talk Offline for more on navigating workplace friendships. You'll hear some juicy stories about work besties gone wrong. ?
?? In this episode, we've got another Show the Receipts topic to discuss: taking a pay cut to spend more time at home with your pet(s). Apparently, some Gen Z and millennial workers are willing to sacrifice pay for their furry friends. Let's just say that Jamé had lots of thoughts as a dog mom of three. Listen to the episode to hear our POVs and then share yours in the comments.
?? After you listen to the episode, let us know what you think! Share your takeaways by tagging Jamé and I in a post on LinkedIn. We want to chat with our work besties!
Extra, extra!!
I mentioned in the episode that in this week's newsletter, I'd be sharing advice on building a relationship with a mentor, since we didn't get to that on the show. So, here are my top tips:
Before you go…
A friendly reminder to listen to, follow and rate the show on your favorite podcast app. See all the ways you can find Let's Talk Offline here . Also, don't forget to send us your burning questions for our Dear Work Bestie segment. You can email us at [email protected] .?
See you back here next Tuesday. We'll be exploring how to turn your side hustle into a 9-to-5 job. Jamé and I were joined by Jahleane Dolne , who made this jump not too long ago. She's going to share how to know when it's time to go all in on your side hustle and how to lay the foundation for a smooth transition.?
In the meantime, remember Jamé and I always have your back. So if something comes up, let's talk offline.
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2 周Insightful
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3 周Very informative
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1 个月Great topic, Gianna! Navigating work friendships can be tricky, but when done right, they can truly enhance our work experience and sense of belonging.
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Project Manager at Creative Group
1 个月I love this! I’ve found myself thinking about the dynamic of work friendships lately and this summed up how I was feeling so well. It’s hard to find that balance of having close work friends but keeping those boundaries to avoid tension. When you do though, it’s so refreshing to have that outlet at work in those rough periods and to get that sense of belonging.