Words Mean Things

Words Mean Things

Words mean things.?

That's what my friend Kyle used to say to me whenever I was "playing small".?

I'd say things like...


"I'm creating a?little?course."

"I'm?just?a small business owner."

"I'm?trying?to build something great."?


And he would immediately remind?me that, "Words mean things." Then challenge me by?asking how I could rephrase my statements?more powerfully.?


"I'm creating a?life-changing?course."

"I'm a?proud?small business owner."?

"I am?building something great."?


Don't you feel the energy shift in these phrases? The person saying the first group has their shoulders slumped and their head hanging low. While the person saying the second group is standing tall, shoulders back, and walks with confidence. Now that's the person I want to be, don't you??

Are you saying things that may be diminishing?your?power? Notice how you describe the projects you're working on, your dreams, your accomplishments, and what you're creating in the world. We can only change our words when we intentionally listen to what we're saying and how we're saying it.

Ideas to Inspire

1.?An Inspiring Message From Kurt Vonnegut.?

2. My friend Jen?invited me to be on her podcast Untethered with Jen Liss. Check out the episode?Do What You Love & Create For No Reason.?

3. Inspiring?Quote: “Every child is an artist, the problem is staying an artist when you grow up.” -?Pablo Picasso

4. Book Recommendation:?The Circle Maker: Praying Circles Around Your Biggest Dreams and Greatest Fears by Mark Batterson. My friend Becca recommended this book to me and so far?it's an interesting read.?

5. Journaling Prompt: How will you speak more powerfully this week???

For more journaling prompts, check out my?Create For No Reason Journal.??

Matthew Kerfoot

Estimator/Project Manager at Eastern Caisson Corp

1 年

Circle Maker is a great book. I have read several of Mark Batterson's books and have enjoyed and been challenged by them all. It is amazing how simply rewording what you're saying can impact your life.

Yes, adding motivating adverbs and adjectives can be empowering. Also, I have this image as the background of my LinkedIn page to back up those words: ??

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1 年

Thanks for this important reminder, greatly appreciated!

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