#WomenStrong
Daphne Casuco, MSPM
Manager, Security Operations at SoFi Stadium and Hollywood Park l Ex-Netflix l USC Alumni I Project Management l Risk Mitigation l Data Analytics
Since 1987 we have annually acknowledged March as Women's History Month. From the very first International Women's Day in 1911, to a National Women's History Week in 1980, to an entire month starting from 1987 and beyond, women have made large strides- and continue to do so, to contribute to the evolution of our society.
Yesterday I was fortunate to attend Women@AEG- an AEG Employee Network Group (ENG). One of the discussion points was if there was someone we looked up to in our personal or professional lives. It dawned upon me that I have yet to find a positive female role model to aspire to in my career. I've always yearned to be mentored so I could organically grow within a company and contribute to the best of my ability. I hope that through this channel I will be able find that person. And in turn, become someone to cultivate new talent as well through mentoring.
I'd be remiss if I did not take this opportunity to address a female figure in my personal life. Like many others out there, I would have to choose my mother. Personally, any woman that undergoes child birth should be given an award (I have not been the same since seeing that video in 7th grade PE). At age 33 I still cannot fully grasp how a human body is capable of doing such a thing.
Growing up I knew my mother loved and cared for me very much. Being active in sports and band (Yes, I was a bandsmack. The President on top of that) she always volunteered and was present at ALL my games and marching band competitions. As an adult, she'd wake up early just to watch me run races.
Her unwavering love for me was never something I had to think about- it was just there. There comes a point when you grow up and you start to realize that your mother is actually just a "woman." The cracks in the image of "super mom" begin to show and you see a woman struggle with life. Your perception matures and you notice the flaw, intentions, struggles, pain, etc.. But despite that, she makes sure you're taken care of no matter how old you get.
I comfortable now in admitting that my upbringing was difficult. The decisions parents make have a direct affect on their children- especially in the long run. She tried her best and continues to do so even though my siblings and I are in our thirties. She just keeps trying, no matter how hard it is.
You have to admire someone that continues to try regardless of their imperfections and missteps. It's honest and sincere. It's a human's will and determination.