Women, Equality and Respect

There had been a lot of discussion and possibly arguments as to what do women really want. Do women likes to be taken care of like a baby? or Do women likes to be let alone and handle her own hustle.

A lot men wrote?articles?about what do women really want. But what really is it? Is there a secret to this? Could it be the?qualities?in man that women want that drives this force? is it about being an adult? Only women knows what women want. In my opinion, what women want differs from each woman you meet. All women are uniquely different from another. Each woman you meet is unique. Women are the backbone of the society. The idiom “Behind?every?great man is a great woman” might be true, indeed. But every great woman is HERSELF.

Some women prefers to lead her own?pack?of?wolves. Some women prefers manning her own flight alone. Some prefers to run with the crowd and some prefers to stay home and run the house.

To some women who had a?difficult upbringing, they would most likely have issues entrusting people. These type of people would most of the time prefers to be alone and do things on their own because they grew up depending on themselves. Some of these women are introverted, some might be extroverted and are hiding the pain behind laughter and smile. When you meet a woman like this, I’d recommend you lend an ear. Listen and let her do her thing. Don’t barge in like you know better.

Some women trust easy. They are those who likes to be around people. They are outgoing and jolly. Other times they are loud. Some of them might be comfortable depending on other people in doing certain things. When they need your help, they will ask. When you meet a woman like this, I’d recommend you lend an ear. Listen and let her do her thing. Don’t barge in like you know better.

And then there are the?alpha females, the femme fatale. They don’t need help most of the time or that is what it appears sometimes. Every time they move their hands and flick their fingers, things get done. They are strong and exudes a lot of confidence. However, just because they can slay their own dragons and fight off their own demons, does not mean that they no longer need any help. They still do but most of the time, they are reluctant to ask. When you meet a woman like this, I’d recommend you lend an ear. Listen and let her do her thing. Don’t barge in like you know better.

When you meet a woman for the very 1st time after coming out of that cave. Don’t act like you know it all. It’s give and take. Men, women are similar in more ways than one. When a woman wants equality, it doesn’t mean she wants to use the same urinal as what men uses. Woman wants equality in a way that respect be given and abilities acknowledged on the same level as men.

The world yes, like for many centuries, is dominated by men. But the world does not belong to men alone. If a woman can do an equal job or better than the male counterparts, why pay her less? What’s up with?gender pay disparity? If a man and a woman has the same worked hours, same job description, same education and same job experience, why pay her less?

The world has gotten comfortable with this set up that nobody bats an eye. If 2 people can run the same mile to do the same job at the same time, both should be rewarded equally. Pay should not be determined by a person’s genitals or gender preference.

Men?does not need to have the ability to give birth nor to have the ability to breastfeed to be?equal. What women/ trans women want are equal respect and equal rights in fields dominated by men.

#empower?#womenempowerment?#respect

Disclaimer: This article is based on the author’s personal point of view and they do not necessarily reflect the views of other women. Other women might have a different opinion and we should respect that.