Winding down

 I have just completed a week long campaign for a Valentine’s Day promotion. Lots took up the offer, some from this community - THANK YOU!!! It makes it all worthwhile. 

For those who don't know me well, I’m a psychologist - that’s for 30 years now.....

I was a teacher for 15 years before I returned to study and started out as a generalist psychologist treating depression, anxiety, stress, PTSD, and a range of mental health problems. 

Way back then during sessions clients would often tell me about upsets and issues with their partner, husband or wife and the impact it was having on them, distress, low mood, poor condifence, wanting to throw it all in. 

I was drawn to helping repair their relationship and quite frequently their mental health problems disappeared or were at least greatly alleviated. 

Hence I leant into doing more and more couples therapy until 16 years ago I shifted to exclusively helping couples in one way or another. 

Whether it was counselling to be better together, or to separate, or seeing them for support after break up, or helping with co-parenting and everything and anything else that arose around the central theme of couples and relationships. 

Gradually it became apparent that my best work was with couples in crisis, married couples who were on the brink of breaking up - I call it The Tipping Point - due to high conflict, frosty disconnection, total disengagement and/or infidelity. 

I say my best work because that’s where I was most effective in achieving the best outcomes for these, highly distressed couples. 

Over time more and more crisis couples have found me who are in the high achieving aspirational business world. Entrepreneurs, financiers, bankers, lawyers, property developers etc. 

They are often very well off, often with exciting lifestyle, but their marriage is suffering from great distractions, minimal family focus and virtually zero time together. 

Helping these clients has brought out a key strength in me which is to connect at their energy packed, fast paced level. 

I “get” them and they feel that from the outset. 

So nowadays my weeks revolve around serving deeply these successful A types. 

I have developed a premium accelerator program which has hit the mark with high achievers because it meets their need for urgency, speed, and ready access plus it has complete privacy way from public scrutiny - no office amongst other therapists. It’s always a work in progress and I am always learning - which I absolutely love. 

I have trained and am certified with the best in the world. 

If you have read this far then I hope I haven’t bored you or may be you know a couple or are a couple who may benefit. 

Do you know about my Facebook business page? 

Lots of free tips plus helpful videos and offers there. The name is Marriage Master Coach.

If you are struggling through a marriage crisis - I invite you to reach out for a chat. Sometimes even a chat helps a lot.

Best wishes.........................................Dee