Why Your Team Pretends to Agree with You (And How to Fix It)
Dennis Mellen
Leadership Expert, Speaker, Best-selling Author, Coach, Workshops, Keynote Speaker. (Ret) AF LtCol. Powering Teams for Peak Performance. Close the Performance Gap through Positive Leadership by Improving Team Culture.
As a leader, you are the pilot of your team’s performance, navigating the turbulence of change, adjusting course when necessary, and ensuring a safe and successful journey toward collective goals. But ask yourself—are you flying with precision, constantly refining your approach, or are you operating on autopilot, assuming past experience is enough to lead your team into the future?
In aviation, pilots undergo annual check rides to validate their skills, ensuring they are operating at peak performance and adapting to new challenges. Nurses pursue continuing education to stay ahead in patient care. Even drivers must renew their licenses to demonstrate competence behind the wheel.
Yet, when it comes to leadership—the single most influential factor in team performance and culture—structured development is often neglected. The reality is, your leadership doesn’t exist in a vacuum. The way you show up, communicate, and make decisions shapes every outcome your team produces.
So, ask yourself: Are you providing the clarity, consistency, and trust your team needs to thrive? Or are you unintentionally creating uncertainty, hesitation, and disengagement?
The Just Culture: A Flight Plan for Leadership Success
In aviation safety, just culture was designed to encourage transparency, learning, and accountability by removing the fear of punishment when honest mistakes occur. It distinguishes between human error, at-risk behavior, and reckless actions, ensuring that people are held accountable in a way that fosters learning instead of fear.
What if your leadership adopted the same principle?
Think about the last time your team faced a setback or made an error. Did they feel safe to analyze, adjust, and improve? Or did they react with defensiveness, blame, or silence?
The best leaders create an environment where positive, purposeful, and productive conversations are the norm. They recognize that psychological safety fuels higher engagement, innovation, and trust. They understand that fear stifles performance, but clarity and consistency create momentum.
Leading with a Just Culture: The Invisible Force Behind Performance Metrics
Here’s the truth: the leadership concepts that drive elite performance don’t show up on financial statements. You won’t find trust, communication, or psychological safety in a set of KPIs. But make no mistake—they are the foundation of every measurable result you achieve.
The numbers always follow the culture.
But when you establish a culture of trust, accountability, and continuous learning, the flight path to future success becomes clear. Promotions, innovation, and efficiency naturally accelerate because your team is no longer guessing—they are fully engaged in a process of ongoing growth.
Four Strategies to Foster a Just Culture and Elevate Leadership Performance
1.???? Make Debriefing a Non-Negotiable Just as pilots analyze every flight, high-performing teams must debrief consistently—not just when things go wrong, but even when they go right. Normalize asking:
2?. Cultivate a Growth Mindset in Every Conversation Fixed-mindset leaders resist change. Growth-mindset leaders embrace challenges as opportunities to refine skills, strengthen resilience, and push beyond limitations.
The best leaders recognize that resilience is a muscle—one that must be strengthened through deliberate practice and continuous feedback.
3?. Elevate Every Conversation with Clarity and Intention Leadership is a constant exchange of energy, vision, and influence. Every interaction is either reinforcing engagement or eroding trust.
Elite leaders ensure that every conversation moves the team forward, whether through encouragement, challenge, or redirection.
4?. Invest in Leadership Development—Starting with Yourself The best pilots never stop training. The best athletes never stop conditioning. The best leaders never stop learning.
Leadership is not a title—it’s a practice. If you’re not continuously evolving, neither is your team.
Final Thought: The Leader You Are Today Determines the Team You’ll Have Tomorrow
If you expect your team to improve, ask yourself: Am I creating an environment that supports their growth?
A just culture isn’t about avoiding accountability—it’s about ensuring that accountability is fair, constructive, and growth-oriented. It replaces fear with clarity, direction, and high standards that motivate rather than intimidate.
When leadership embraces this philosophy, results follow naturally. Performance metrics rise because team members are confident in their path forward. Retention improves because people feel valued and supported. Promotions happen because the flight path to future opportunities is clear.
The best leaders don’t wait for problems to force change. They proactively build a culture where learning, accountability, and elite performance thrive.
So, the real question is: Are you piloting your leadership toward high performance, or are you on autopilot?
What’s one step you can take today to build a just culture within your team?
Stay Full Throttle,
Dennis Mellen
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