Why are you here?
Theodora Lau
American Banker Top 20 Most Influential Women in Fintech | 3x Book Author | Coming Soon: Banking on Artificial Intelligence (2025) | Founder — Unconventional Ventures | Podcast — One Vision | Public Speaker | Top Voice
Yet again another deadly shooting. 19 elementary school children at Robb Elementary School in Uvalde, Texas.
Yet again more thoughts and prayers.?
Yet again.?
Today is May 25, the 145th day of the year. There have been 213 mass shootings in 2022, according to non-profit Gun Violence Archive. There are now more mass shootings this year than there have been days in 2022.?
Let that sink in.
In elementary schools, where children are supposed to be learning and growing.?
In grocery stores like the one in Buffalo, NY, where 13 victims, 11 of them Black, lost their lives on a Saturday afternoon. In places of worship.
Nowhere is safe.
Yet. Here we are. Once again. Confronting a pain that is all too familiar.?
But it doesn’t have to be this way.?
Just as economic inequality is a policy choice
A choice made by those who have the power to change it yet choose not to.
A choice made by those who value gun rights above human lives.
A choice made by those who value gun lobbyists more than school children.
An active choice — to not do more to keep our kids safe. To be willing to stand by — offering nothing but empty words.
So it happens. Again. And again.
And we feel powerless to stop it.
Thoughts and prayers will not bring back the lives lost.
Thoughts and prayers will not mend the broken hearts of families torn by violence.
Innocent lives lost. In the name of rights of those who want to bear arms.?
But what about the rights of the children to live? What about the rights of their parents and grandparents to watch them graduate elementary school, middle school, or even high school? Is that too much to ask for? Did we not say, all lives matter??
Or is that only when it suits the rhetoric of the day??
Hypocrisy kills.
On Monday, the day before the shooting, I was talking to two friends about getting my son an Apple Watch for him to call home in case of emergency. I have a habit of always keeping my phone with me even when I go on stage, just in case we receive the dreaded phone calls.?
Because you never know if the goodbye kiss you have on your way out to the airport would have been the last goodbye.
Because this is the life we live in.?
Not because we live in a war zone.?
But because our country yields to those with money and power.?
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This hits close to home. Too close.?
My daughter is a 4th grader. I can’t imagine the pain the parents and the communities are going through.
When schools are meant to be safe places, kids have to practice active shooter drills
Imagine that.
It is both senseless and incomprehensible.
“It takes a monster to kill children. But to watch monsters kill children again and again and do nothing isn’t just insanity—it’s inhumanity.” ~ Amanda Gorman
For politicians who are so consumed with banning books and banning teaching about racial inequity in schools, if they were willing to channel that energy to solving gun violence and protecting our children, imagine the lives that could have been saved.?
There are more guns than there are people in the United States. Texas alone has the most registered guns, with 588,696. And we wonder why tragedies like Sandy Hook, Parkland, and Uvalde keep happening.
Books don't kill. Guns kill.?
“Why do you go through all the hassle of getting this job, of putting yourself in a position of authority — if your answer is that as this slaughter increases, as our kids run for our lives, we do nothing?” ~ Senator Chris Murphy
And the responsibility extends beyond the government to the private sector.
As the saying goes, money makes the world go round. Through lending to or investing in firearms manufacturers and sellers, financial institutions play a role in enabling the gun industry.
But we have an active choice. We can choose to become more socially responsible
We can choose to commit to doing more.
Or not.?
Inaction is action.
And we have the power in our hands
Because one life is one too many.
Don’t get numb. Don’t look away.?
Don’t be the problem. Be part of the solution
Remember this feeling and use that to fuel your action.?
Vote to make a difference
Speak with your wallet and make it worthwhile for those who left us too early.?
Fight for those who can’t fend for themselves.?
This is not politics.?
This is not a red versus blue debate.
This is simply human.
So I ask: Why are you here?
Strategic technology advisor, consultant, co-founder FinVino, pivotassets.substack.com
2 年one of the problems is that there are those who don't see a problem, a need to change and won't. #sad
Leader, Gen AI & Cloud Evangelist, Storyteller
2 年If those that we choose to act in our best interests fail to do so then we must act. Every piece that says enough, every person yelling in pain and agony for change. The one thing we can't do is be quiet. To hide behind false platitudes. To worry about people who will try and villainize us and say we are taking away from the memories of the fallen. There can be no greater way to honor the dead than say: never again. And then to act to make that happen. The level of apathy and indifference to suffering that we've become accustomed to must be worn down, and the insincere rejected. My father died in the 80s because they didn't understand internal bleeding in car accidents and because there was a stop sign that people would routinely run. Guess what happened after another couple died at the same intersection it got a stoplight (senseless). And in medicine, we now send car accident victims straight back due to the concerns of internal bleeding. It's a tragedy I grew up never knowing my father, but I'm damn happy to see that others don't share my fate because WE CHANGED. We have to get to a point where we answer a simple question what do you love more: life? or unfettered gun use? Because sadly those are our choices.
Founder @ Modev | AI Ecosystems | Generate | AGENTIC | GovAI Summit
2 年You've captured it all, Theo. Thanks for putting in writing what we're all feeling.
Business Development l Branding l Advisor l Speaker l Content Creator l Hearing Care & Communication Advocate l Co-Host of This Week in Hearing Podcast
2 年I couldn't have said it better. Thank you.
Head of Fintech Partnerships and Open Innovation, SMBC (smbcgroup.com) Author, Speaker, Startup Advisor
2 年Powerful words my friend, and another moment of tragedy that should not be wasted on platitudes from politicians.