Why You Don’t Need To “Find Your Voice"

One of the biggest blockages holding back daughters of immigrants from being visible, unapologetic, and easeful in their public speaking is self-doubt.

It’s the belief that you need to look externally to find your voice—a confident, charismatic voice out there—for you to be “good enough” to speak your truth, especially in public.

The reality is, so much of my work with clients is the opposite.

When working with my clients, many of them daughters of immigrants and eldest daughters, I support them through the process of looking inwards…

• ?? Reconnecting with their ancestral roots
• ?? Re-attuning to their body and nervous system
• ?? Shedding layers of people-pleasing
• ??? Clearing the cobwebs of generational self-silencing patterns
• ?? Disarming defense mechanisms that once kept them safe but now keep their voice locked up

By shedding and clearing, you create space for your inner voice to re-emerge and lead your expression. You create space for your confidence to fill your body.

You've seen those inspirational IG graphics saying "FIND YOUR VOICE." But as a coach, I'm not here to help you "find your voice." Your voice isn't somewhere out there for you to find.

Instead, my work guides you to remember and reclaim the voice that's always been inside you.

• I help you clear blockages and unlearn thought patterns that hinder you from embodying the powerful speaker you already are.
• I share tools to help you clarify, experiment with, and unleash your voice.
• I’m here to help you rebuild self-trust in your voice and cultivate safety in your body, so you can exude full-body confidence when speaking your truth, taking up space, and being seen as the speaker you've always been.

At the core, this work is about remembrance.

Remembering and reclaiming the speaker within you.

Coming home to your voice.

So, here are my questions for you:

?? What are you remembering about your voice today?

?? What are you reclaiming?

As for me,

• I'm remembering today that the softness of my voice doesn't mean I'm weak. Soft can be powerful.
• I'm reclaiming the 8th grader Eunice that was bold and shameless in her speaking (ask me about my class president campaign speeches back in the day ??).

I'd love to hear what you're remembering and reclaiming today.

If you’re ready to come home to your voice and reclaim the unique power of your expression, book a call with me . Let’s dive into what’s standing in the way and how I can support you.

Rooting for you,

Eunice

PS. Leaving you with this quote... :)

"We do not become healers.

We came as healers. We are.

Some of us are still catching up to what we are.

We do not become storytellers.

We came as carriers of the stories?we and our ancestors actually lived. We are.

Some of us are still catching up to what we are.

We do not become artists.

We came as artists. We are.

Some of us are still catching up to what we are.

We do not become writers.. dancers.. musicians.. helpers.. peacemakers. We came as such. We are.

Some of us are still catching up to what we are.

We do not learn to love in this sense. We came as Love. We are Love.

Some of us are still catching up to who we truly are."

— Clarissa Pinkola Estés, Simple Prayer for Remembering The Motherlode

Ready to dive deeper?

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Hi! I'm Eunice KS, a first-generation Korean American somatic healing coach.

Integrating 10+ years of experience in somatic healing and trauma-informed coaching with my own lived experience as a daughter of immigrants navigating generational healing, I've developed a framework that's allowed me to unblock my voice, speak my truth with confidence, and become a professional speaker. Now, I support other daughters of immigrants do the same.

If you're ready to reclaim your voice, I'm here to help you feel FREE to express yourself with confidence, facilitate transformation through your presence, and embody the powerful speaker that has always been within you.

Have questions or want to chat? DM me or book a free consultation . I'd love to support you.