Why We Referee
My fellow friends of the pitch, we stand today upon the green fields of play, where the game is not merely a contest of skill, but a testament to safety, fairness, discipline, and respect. We are soccer referees not for the fleeting recognition of a whistle blown, nor for the transient authority of an upheld card, but because we believe in the duty of service to the game and to those who play it.
A referee does not seek the cheers of the crowd or the embrace of victory. Instead, we walk the lonely path of impartiality, upholding the sacred laws of the game so that all who enter the field may compete on safe, equal ground. In the rush of the game’s fury, in the clamor of contesting voices, it is the referee who must remain steadfast, unmoved by favor or pressure, committed only to the safety, truth and justice of the sport.
To officiate is to serve. To step forward when others step back. To ensure that passion does not give way to recklessness, that competition does not erode sportsmanship, that the game is preserved in its purity. The calls we make are not always welcomed, but they are necessary. For without order, there is no fairness; without fairness, there is no game worth playing.
Let no man think that officiating is for the faint of heart. To stand in the center of the storm, where emotions rise and tempers flare, requires not only knowledge, but courage. It requires the wisdom to see, the judgment to decide, and the fortitude to enforce. These are the burdens and responsibilities that a referee must bear, not for our own sake, but for the safety and integrity of the game itself.
We are referees because we believe in the spirit of competition, the honor of fair play, and the necessity of justice in all things, great and small. We believe that each game, from the grandest stadium to the humblest field, deserves the same commitment to safety and fairness. And we believe that every player, regardless of talent or background, deserves to compete in a game that is true.
But beyond the whistle and the rules, beyond the calls and decisions, we believe in the power of soccer to shape lives. This game teaches children resilience in the face of defeat, humility in the glow of victory, and teamwork in the pursuit of a common goal. It instills discipline, fosters respect, and builds character that extends far beyond the touchlines of the field. Soccer helps young minds grow, teaching them lessons that will serve them not just in sport, but in life.
And so we stand, whistle in hand, not for ourselves, but for the game, for the players, for the children who learn and grow with every pass and every goal. Let it be said that when the final whistle blows, the match was played as it was meant to be: safely, honestly, fiercely, and justly.
That is why we are soccer referees.
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2 天前Congratulations Jef on finding your passion that will keep you young at heart!
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2 天前Question. Do you yellow card a home team coach if someone in the home team press box opens a window and yells out at the referee for a call they didn't agree with leaving an echo across the stadium?
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2 天前This is so well written and so well-said. We need more men like you that stand on values and believe in the rules, not just winning. Keep the courage and keep it up Jeff Kays!
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2 天前Friday will likely be my last regular season games of the High School Season. I love this time of year because it is warming and many of the games matter for playoff seeding. I also like the communal aspects of high school soccer. I can even appreciate the parent who doesn’t understand that to be offside you have to be active in play…and that means you are close to the ball. I even like the coach who didn’t appreciate that I checked the air pressure of the balls before the game.