Why Valentine's Day Should Be an Everyday Affair: A Toast to Self-Love
Jaida Pervis
Certified Matchmaker & CEO | Curating Exceptional Connections for Successful Singles Nationwide | Helping Clients Achieve Relationship Goals with a Personalized Touch
Love is in the air, but who says it needs a plus one? This Valentine's Day, let's break the mold and celebrate the most enduring relationship you've ever had: the one with yourself. And here's a thought—why limit this celebration to just one day a year? Let’s discuss why Valentines Day should be an everyday affair, and not just a calendar highlight.
Every February, chocolates, flowers, and all things heart-shaped make their annual pilgrimage from store shelves to our living rooms. But amidst this commercial frenzy, the essence of love—especially self-love tends to get lost! Solo Valentine's Day is not just a day; it's a mindset. Picture this: A table for one that doesn't wobble, your favorite meal (with no judgmental looks when you order that extra side), and the freedom to indulge in your guilty pleasures. Sounds perfect, right? Now, imagine if you could have that freedom and joy every day.
My question to you is, why wait for February 14th to roll around to treat yourself? Here are a few simple suggestions on how you can make every day feel like Valentine's Day:
1.????? Start the day by looking in the mirror and reminding yourself that you're a catch. "I am my own soulmate," is not just a mantra; it's a fact.
2.????? That fancy coffee you love? Make it a daily ritual. The expensive chocolates you savor? Keep them stocked. Self-love is in the details.
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3.????? ?Who says spa days are for special occasions? A long bath on a Tuesday can be just as rejuvenating as a weekend spa session. Book that massage appointment, schedule that manicure, or simply create your own relaxing ambiance in the privacy of your own home.
4.????? Dedicate time to do what you love, whether it's going for a run, catching up with friends, cooking your favorite meal or taking a walk, spending time in nature. Embrace your passions without apology.
In a world obsessed with sharing every moment, there's a special kind of joy in missing out. Solo Valentine's Day celebrates that joy—the bliss of spending time with yourself, doing what you love, without the need to document or share it. It's about being present in your own company and loving every second of it.
Ultimately, self-love shouldn't be confined to one day a year. It's a daily practice, a lifestyle choice, and the key to a happy, fulfilled life. So, this Valentine's Day, raise a glass to yourself, and let's make a pact to celebrate the most important person in your life every day. After all, why wait for one day a year to treat yourself like the royalty you are? Because when you love yourself, every day is Valentine's Day.