Why Uncertainty Can Be a Blessing
Dr Jenny Brockis
Lifestyle Medicine Physician | Empowering you to be happier and healthier, and thrive in life and work | LinkedIn Top Voice
Uncertainty has become rife. It’s everywhere. It taints our outlook. It colours our world view. It peppers our conversation as the endless debate, blame-shifting and finger-pointing around who did what, said what, didn’t do, leaves us feeling breathless and exhausted.
Uncertainty has always been with us and will always be.
The antidote is not certainty, although having some certainty can feel reassuring. The sun will rise tomorrow. The solution is to be more?present?to what is happening right now because uncertainty, just like certainty is an essential human trait.
A world that is always certain would be a dangerous and boring place. Certainty means there is nothing else you need to know or learn about. Certainty does not allow for that element of surprise, the unexpected and delight in discovery. Too much certainty blocks our imagination, innovation or creativity. It stifles our curiosity, our desire to explore or to change our mind. Our beliefs become fixed and unless some uncertainty wafts our way, we can remain chained to those unwavering thoughts that may be outdated.
There was so much I was taught in Medical School that was presented as fact, that is now known to be completely wrong. I guess that’s why we learn medicine as a science and practice it as an art…
Wrong, wrong and wrong again.
One of my favourite TED talks given by the late Hans Rosling?“The Best Stats You’ve Ever Seen” ?is a quirky, thought-provoking exposé of just how wrong we can be about some things we were sure (read certain) we knew to be correct.
His book,?Factfulness : Ten Reasons We’re Wrong About the World – and Why Things Are Better Than You Think, explores this a little further (though I have to say I found the tone of his writing somewhat patronising, but I’ll leave that up to you to decide and it could be the effect of translation into English).?
Smothering uncertainty with platitudes of certainty doesn’t work, a better way is to approach it like a scientist, choosing to question, unravel, experiment and come up with a new theory or hypothesis.
Our brain loves certainty because it provides us with a sense of safety. It’s OK to relax because you’re sure that your friends you’re having dinner with mean you no harm, other than a possible inadvertent dose of food poisoning or persuading you to drink more wine than is prudent. Being certain that the staircase is safe to use, that the smoke alarm will work if a fire breaks out, that the toaster will toast and not carbonise your breakfast if left on the correct setting, is all greatly reassuring.
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We need uncertainty just as we need positive emotion, strong relationships, meaningful work and clear communication, to question freely whether what we believe is true.?
But uncertainty doesn’t have to be scary. Try a reframe by transposing it into a question that alleviates the associated fear. And if the question can’t be answered now that’s OK, the solution or insight may come later.
As Adam Grant in his book?Think Again ?shares, “true progress and personal growth are born from constantly reassessing your ideas and opinions and adopting a humble approach to knowledge.”?
Uncertainty is a gift. Stepping into uncertainty, secure in what you stand for, helps you to find meaning in the chaos of life, to retain a broader perspective, to feel grateful for what you have, to recognise your internal strengths and adopt a realistic optimism for what is possible.
I’m not saying we shouldn’t acknowledge the pain and difficulty associated with a high level of uncertainty. But we do have a choice, to focus more on what is, right now. What you have, what you’re grateful for and what you can look forward to, whatever that might look like.
What are you paying attention to right now?
How can you channel uncertainty into a greater feeling of being at peace with the world, by focusing on the power and purpose you have within?
Can reappraising uncertainty raise our level of resilience?
Can accepting greater uncertainty in our lives reduce our risk of burnout, anxiety or depression?
I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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7 个月Spot on Embracing uncertainty can actually lead to better mental well-being. Keep exploring the unknown ?? #mindfulness
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7 个月The only thing that’s certain, is uncertainty itself.
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7 个月I like the way you framed the "Being in the present moment "Dr Jenny Brockis. Embracing uncertainties could reduce anxiety and one can start small - With a Pause & deep breath.