Why Seeking Others' Approval is Slowing You Down

MAIN TAKEAWAYS

  • People don’t need to understand your dream. Only you need to understand your goals and where you’re headed. Carry no expectation for people to understand your goals, dreams and hopes.
  • When you become concerned with how people view you and your work ethic, you poison your motivation.
  • The greatest way to advance is to release the need to have everyone understand you.
  • Ask yourself, “Why do other people need to ‘get’ me?” What are you going to gain from that and is there another way to feel fulfilled?
  • It only matters that you know why you are chasing your goals and dreams. And no matter how small you start, start something that matters. Start something that brings your life back.
  • Check out the full episode here.


Nate Gilbert

Organizational Leadership | Team Building | Global Logistics Strategy | Sales Leadership | Marine Corps Veteran

6 年

Brendon Burchard, thanks for the continual inspiration. I have my “why” now it’s time to execute.

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Thanks for the reminder Brendon I will keep going !!

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