Why Read This? Because It Will Transform Your Persuasion Game
Jake Stahl
Sales and Business Development Neurostrategist | NLP Coach and Master Practitioner | International Award-Winning Trainer | Mind Mechanic
In the realm of business communication, one word, rather surprisingly, reigns supreme: because. This small conjunction, often used without a second thought, wields an influence that’s hard to overstate, as shown by an ingenious experiment involving a photocopier.
Ellen Langer, a behavioral scientist with an affinity for understanding the nuances of human communication, crafted a study set in the all-too-familiar scenario of waiting in line to use a photocopier. A participant would approach those in queue with a simple request: “May I use the copier?” To this audacious inquiry, 60% generously acquiesced. However, when our line-cutter added 'because' and a valid reason, such as being pressed for time, compliance impressively surged to 94%.
Langer then introduced a playful twist. What if the reason, while present, was somewhat redundant? “May I use the machine, because I have to make copies?” While it's stating the obvious, a remarkable 93% still allowed the requester to proceed.
Now, one might wonder, why does 'because' wield such power? It's primarily due to the psychological conditioning involved. The word 'because' has been consistently followed by valid reasons for much of our lives, creating a reinforced association in our minds. Essentially, over time, our brains have come to expect a logical justification whenever we hear 'because', making it a potent tool for persuasion.
To further probe the boundaries of 'because', Langer modified the experiment’s conditions. Instead of a handful of copies, the participant wanted to make twenty. This wasn’t just about longer waiting times but also about the inherent challenges of machines and their tendency to jam with more pages. In this heightened scenario, when the word 'because' was either omitted or followed by a weak justification, compliance sharply dropped to 24%. However, a substantial reason, such as being in a genuine hurry, almost doubled affirmative responses.
From Langer's research, two clear insights emerge. For routine, minor decisions, the mere use of 'because' can work wonders, even if the subsequent reason isn’t the most compelling. But as the stakes rise, the quality of the accompanying rationale becomes paramount.
Harnessing this insight, how might businesses employ the 'because' strategy effectively?
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1. Negotiations: Ground proposals with compelling justifications. “Our pricing is optimal because it mirrors comprehensive market analyses.”
2. Marketing and Sales: Elevate product pitches with reasons. “This software is a must-have because of its unparalleled efficiency algorithms.”
3. Team Management: Assign roles with clarity. “Your lead on this project is critical because your expertise matches the project's requirements.”
4. Networking: Facilitate introductions with thought. “Connecting with Jane would be invaluable because our business strategies seem synergistic.”
5. Client Proposals: Drive home strategies with rationale. “This training module stands out because it’s deeply rooted in the Adaptive Conversational Blueprint.”
In conclusion, while 'because' may seem commonplace, its potency in business communication is undeniable, amplified by the deep-seated associations we've cultivated over time. Its nuanced use, combined with meaningful justifications, can be your key to unlocking successful outcomes.
Key Account Manager III
1 年Well said
Sr. Sales Director | SDR Aficionado | Driving Revenue Growth in Start-up and SaaS Environments | Coach | Sales Strategy and Culture Development
1 年Great insight, Jake Stahl!
Corporate Execs Needing to Sell Themselves| Fractional Consulting Expert| I help former executives make MORE MONEY than they did in corporate America. Is selling a problem? DM me to find out why it’s really not!
1 年Choosing language like this in communication is hyper important. I like anything that increases my probability of success, when I use it with integrity.