Why Professional Business People May Suffer in Their Personal life!
Shadi Obeidat
Senior Executive Professional- Pharmaceutical, Sales Management, Trainer and Coach, Developed an accredited Antigravity way for "Business Habit Management & Mindfulness Practicing" by AIOBP & IAPCM
Frustration and anxiety may consider the most common psychological problems that are facing business people; people who work with companies and grown within business cultures and environments. Those business people may successful inside their companies but suffering in their personal relationships strongly!; which affect vies versa their business productivity on a negative way.
To identify the root of their suffering we should understand and analyze their working environment effect on their thinking habits and mindset, taking into consideration that business mindset strongly rule our personal life. Because people in general tend to not sophisticate their life decisions so they make generalization to escape from spending extra energy to differentiate between situations they are facing during their life.
We are our thoughts, in our industrial revolution age we find many innovative solutions created and driven big companies, companies that are growing in their revenues which a main measurements of their performance , corporate are shaping our lives not only by their products and solution but by their mindset and believes!
How our thinking habits created by companies!
From day one, employees learn that in order to grow you should develop their strengths and overcome weaknesses and this a sense of dissatisfaction about themselves. Some employee may affect their self-esteem and confidence in general.
What else we learn from corporate! Planning such as setting objectives and goals, making strategies tactics and KPIS. It is not allowed for business people to move on in their career without putting aspirations and planning their objectives. In companies, there is no space for mistakes and they not tolerate even few they give attention and warnings to enhance people commitment and discipline. This is a corporate mindset we are dealing with and to be a successful business person you should thrive to adopt these business rules and then your thinking habits form inside you consciously and unconsciously.
Our personal life is ruled now by business mindset, we are behaving with family and friends even with ourselves with business and corporate rules, without even aware of that. But life in itself is far from being company –a like environment, it’s unpredictable and a lot of emotions and reactivity, so we cannot tolerate family or friends mistakes and we should stick to our plans all the time, we become very upset if something ruined our personal plans such as dinner appointment or birthday event or a football game..etc
With business mindset, we forget empathy, forgiveness and gratitude because these are disappeared from our business dictionary and mind set, we are looking to our personal life with business glass eyes and emerging of business rules making our life skills weak and un developed
We must understand these distinction between our personal life and business life in companies we should think differently and looking to our lives in more humble way experiencing our humanity far away from business personality alike!
Being as business people and living in our companies without awareness is like falling in painful trap ,you may be an adult in business but a child in personal life , lets grow this child and teach him different rules –rules of life