Why Playing Small in Your Career is Costing You Big Time
Elyse Conroy
Confidence Coach | Career Advocate | Helping Women Make BOLD Career Moves With Confidence | Host of The Confidence Lounge Podcast | Ex Estee Lauder
Are You Settling for Less Than You Deserve?
In the relentless pursuit of success, I see too many ambitious women find themselves stuck in roles that no longer challenge or fulfill them. They stay for the illusion of stability or because the fear of the unknown is too overwhelming.
Yet, that comfort comes with a high price: the cost of your potential.
The Real Cost of Playing Small
Meet Jane: The Cost of Staying vs. the Freedom of Quitting
Take Jane, a marketing executive who seemed to “have it all.”
On paper, she had a high-paying corporate job, respect, and a solid title. But beneath the surface, Jane felt trapped. Every day felt the same—she was uninspired, overwhelmed by endless tasks that lacked meaning, and constantly battling self-doubt. She stayed in her job out of fear: fear of the unknown, fear of losing stability, fear of failure.
But that fear was costing her more than she realized. Her creativity dwindled, her passion faded, and she often felt like she was just going through the motions. The spark she once had was gone, and so was her confidence.
Then, Jane made a bold decision.
She hired me to help her walk away from the comfort and stability that was holding her back.
We worked together to create the courage required to launch her own marketing consultancy—something she had always dreamed of.
The first few months were filled with challenges, but within a year, Jane’s business was thriving.
She reclaimed her confidence, found joy in her work again, and realized the freedom of designing a life on her own terms.
Today, Jane wakes up excited about her work. She sets her own goals, chooses projects that align with her passion, and enjoys a newfound balance in her personal life.
Jane’s story isn’t unique—it’s a powerful example of what can happen when you stop settling and start living.
The Stats Don’t Lie
Fast Forward to One Year from Now...
Now, let’s talk about you.
Fast forward to one year from today.
What is the cost of staying in a job that no longer excites or challenges you?
Is this what you want your life to look and feel like?
Imagine another year of frustration, missed opportunities, and stagnant growth.
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Now, flip the script.
What is the benefit of leaving?
Picture the freedom that comes from stepping into a role or business that truly lights you up.
Envision waking up with excitement, building confidence, and living with more purpose and fulfillment than ever before.
Imagine the weight lifting off your shoulders, the excitement of stepping into something bigger and better.
Let’s turn that daydream into reality—together.
I’m offering a free guided visualization designed to help you envision what life could look like after making your big quit, allowing you to step into your next chapter with intention and confidence.
I can't wait to see where your mind takes this.
Click here to access the free guided visualization.
Final Quick Tip from a Confidence Coach:
I've coached 1000's of women on confidence and here is the one thing I need to tell you...
Confidence isn’t built overnight—it’s created through consistent action.
If you’re feeling stuck or hesitant, take one small, bold step today.
Small steps compile and over time create massive results.
Whether it’s updating your resume, reaching out to a mentor/coach, or even exploring a side hustle, every action outside your comfort zone strengthens your confidence muscle.
The more you push those boundaries, the easier it becomes to believe in your ability to thrive in the unknown.
The real secret? Confidence grows after you take the leap, not before.
Trust yourself and take that first step!
PS: New to my world? WELCOME! I am Elyse and I coach women on building confidence, making big quits and creating more success.
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