WHY PEOPLE HATE YOU!
Dr Sanele Justice Gamede (PhD)
African Award Winning Life, Career and Leadership Coach || Lecturer || Keynote Speaker || Author || Social Entrepreneur
Welcome to another day that has a potential to bring change in your life. Remember to read this message out load and read only this message for the day. You inspire for you to be inspired. Remember: #ItsPossibleBecauseItsDoable
“WHY PEOPLE HATE YOU?”
I strongly believe you are wondering, like many other people, why people seem to hate you so much, why people don’t take you seriously in anything you do, say or what you have done? Do you want to know why people close doors every time when you knock on their doors? Do you want to know why everyone wants you out of their lives? Do you probably wonder why your partner left you when you did nothing wrong? Answers to the above questions and some that I didn’t ask is what you have.
?What you have is greater than what they have. They don’t hate you, but the universe is indirectly telling you that you don’t belong where you are. Abimelech, in the book of Genesis 26:16, once ordered Isaac to leave the country, “Go somewhere else for you have become too powerful for us”. For Isaac, the feeling was not the same. He was probably confused and angry that he was being chased out of his country, but it was necessary for what he had. People who are chasing you away from their lives do not hate you, but they cannot handle what you have. They cannot handle how powerful you have become. They can see how powerful you are going to be. I don’t know who are the people that you think hate you. They could be in your school, university, at your work, at home, in your church, in your organization or in your community. They do not hate you; they can’t keep up with who you are, who you have become and who you are to become.
?Joseph’s brothers, in the Bible, did the same thing with him; they first wanted to kill him but ended up selling him because they couldn’t handle his gift. They didn’t understand him, and they hated the leadership placed in him. Their plan of killing you has failed, that’s why they are kicking you out of their lives. Don’t hate them but help them; don’t try to avenge but avail yourself to them. They are confused and struggling to understand how you survive. The reason it seems as if you are not welcome in other people’s lives it’s because you don’t fit in their lives and for the reason, they think you think you are better than them.
?Don’t walk away from what you have been given just because you are afraid people won’t accept you. They will hate you for the breakthrough you have, just because of the breakdowns they are going through. Remember they are trying to live your life and as they see you become successful while they are not, it makes them angry. They blame you for what is not happening in their lives. Always remember to pray for them, instead of preying on them.
Today’s Question:
What do people hate about you?
Remember:
General Assistant at The Shoprite Group of Companies
1 年My mind and thought is, nor one have told me that they hate me.
NYDA Employee
1 年A thought-provoking message, thank you for sharing.
Finance Intern at SAICA CETC Project, Finance intern at North West CET College
1 年I always wondered, but now you have answered me, thank you Doc, have a blessed week.
Office Administrator at Thomo Developments
1 年What a wonderful piece, much needed to hear. Thank you so much. My day has started ??
Talent and Career Assessment Specialist ( Independent Psychometrist)
1 年Wow Dr Gamede, thank you so much well said.