Why others may not be so blessed!

"Each one's Karma"…whom we think is blessed might come also be struggling with something, one might say this casually that the one what he sows also reaps.

Though some people do have unprecedented luck and others unprecedented bad luck, this is very rare. It is usually peoples’ response to stimuli in their life that defines whether they feel and make people believe that they are either blessed or struggling. At most times, irrespective of circumstances, one can choose to either be grateful because they focus on how people have nurtured them and the meaningful experiences in their lives, or feel like they should have been luckier because they feel that somehow the world owes them.

Faith is the blessing that comes from contentment and peace of mind. They understand what they have and are willing to share it. By giving kindness to others they are more happy than someone who is not content and always seeking more. Blessing is not about receiving more but is about the love we get share and the joy that we receive from it. When you give blessings, then others will bless you. The motivation for the blessing is not to receive but to give unconditional love.

We also realise that not just everyone struggles. There is not a person on this earth that doesn’t but those who give unconditional love will bless those who are around them, and when you do our Father in Heaven will bless you with love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness, and self control.

 We need to have some points to explore the same person. Let us start with say: struggle: what it means one person has to face in his or her life? -lack of resources(60%) -lack of management(40%) -lack of planned decisions(40%) -lack of understanding (20%) -repeating mistakes (habits 95%) -deviating from genuine problem is fine but inviting more problem is a beautiful trouble . (90%) -poor communication yes this also matters and even zero discussion (60%) -very poor physical and mental health (80%) -lack of handling responsibilities, money and calculating the time (70%) -living like a fool in just dreams and lack of self estimation even. lack of business handling, zero in futuristic points.

An now let us see the person who has it all very easy in life in having any points above makes it all easy. Habituating any four points above makes it all easy. Actually you can ask how to put anything into a habit and you get something different and new answer. If we go and see there are plenty of software engineers who are highly skilled with well earned wisdom and experience but they are not risk oriented if its genuinely true for them. They can take risk in projects but not in life. For example even they failed in writing right answer in their own words for assignments for company and business but they won’t do it for final exams.that fear of failure forces them to ratification(mug up) all chapters for final exams both family and life.

We know precisely one reason some people have to work so hard in life is because they didn't work hard in school, building a foundation for a good job. The term I am using for this is delayed gratification. I didn't go to all the parties and get drunk. I didn't have to even get married because I have got my cool girlfriend. I don't have a police record because i didn't commit any crimes. Some people might say had a dull college experience and I say that I went to business school to learn, not to just chill out and party. I put my effort into school and learned what I needed to get a good job and one that I enjoyed. When you have a good grounding in the career path of your own choice, you will always have a job you enjoy. If you don't want to make the sacrifice, you will wind up working at a job you don't like and be unhappy.

We need to understand that 99% of the world is under the illusion that some people are luckier than others, have an easier time than others, and so forth. People who live with this notion believe that some people are more fortunate while others are not. As a result, millions of people live under the illusion that one day they’ll get the one lucky break, perhaps win the jackpot or lottery, that’ll get them to the ‘promised heavens’.

If you know, according to king Solomon’s statement mentioned earlier, everybody on earth has a chance or an opportunity. While your opportunity may not be similar to mine, some opportunities are hard to implement and take years to bear fruit, others are easy and can yield results within days, weeks or months. Life never brings opportunities in any particular order. Opportunities are like sea waves – some high, some low. And events cannot be predicted with certainty. It’s up to you to choose which wave you want to ride. However, life expects you to choose at least one opportunity and implement it without complaining. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre