Why more men are single ?

To put it simply, more men are single because they are not interested in relationships. It’s their own personal choice not to be romantically involved with anyone.

Why not?

Some men are content with being single. They enjoy the current life they have and believe a relationship could ruin it.

Some men greatly value their freedom. They want to do whatever they want, whenever they want to. They want to go wherever they want without asking for any woman’s permission. They want to be able to live a carefree life and be free to flirt around as they please.

Some are occupied and do not have time for relationships. They are either workaholics or devoted single fathers who cannot make time to date because they have more important things to do, like tending to their work or taking care of their kids.

Lastly, some are scared to fall in love. They either don’t feel confident in themselves or they fear rejection. Consequently, they don’t put any effort at all into looking for love. Instead, they give up and later on come to terms with being forever single.

There are probably more reasons as to why 50% of the American male population prefers to be single.

On the other hand, with regards to the other 49% who are actively looking but are still single, it’s possible that they are still single because of personal constraints. Despite putting themselves out in the dating world to find love, they still return unsuccessful.

Why, though?

Reasons why some men are still single despite putting themselves out there.

It has a lot to do with their level of dateability.

[ adj. Dateability refers to the degree of the quality of being dateable. ]

Several factors can affect a man’s degree of dateability, such as:

Looks. Let’s be honest, no matter how many women will say looks don’t matter, it does matter. Fortunately, beauty is subjective, meaning everyone is attractive in their own way as long as they ask the right person. So, for all the single men who think they are unattractive, you just haven’t found the right woman yet.

Poor dating skills. Some men are single because they don’t know how to flirt with women, are too shy, or are terrible at picking up female signals. On the bright side, these are easily fixable. Just broaden your knowledge by reading dating tips online.

Character. A man’s personality can either give him an advantage or disadvantage in dating. It’s one of the biggest factors that affects his degree of dateability. If he’s a drug addict, narcissist, pessimist, socially awkward, or an absolute prick, his chances of finding a girlfriend are low.

In summary, men are either single by choice or single due to personal constraints. For men who are having trouble finding love despite trying their best, I suggest you look into matchmaking.