Why Men Will Always Cheat

Cheating in a relationship is as old as the very existence of humanity itself. Queens, mistresses, kings and concubines from Biblical encounters cheated and almost got away with it. Young, old, rich and the poor alike are guilty as charged as far as betraying their supposedly beloved lovebirds is concerned yet it is no lie that many a times, men have been found to exhibit more robust tendencies of turning the other way. So why is it disturbingly vivid that men, a great deal of them, will always cheat in a relationship?

Many women and pundits in the ‘heart-issues’ industry have repeatedly blamed religion. To an extent, their sentiments bare some tangible shreds of truth. Christianity, Islam, Buddhism, Judaism, and other world’s major religions have since time immemorial placed women at the very bottom of their hierarchical, stringent, and rigid rules. A woman has no say in many aspects of religious practices and is often seen as a mere object of appeasing male’s insatiable sexual appetites and bringing forth kids.

In Christianity, Eve’s unfortunate role that culminated into fall of humanity to sin thus death, suffering and condemnation, has been a perfect refuge for men who subdue women’s rights and regard them as an inferior gender. A woman thus is supposed to be submissive, unwavering in her faith, and unquestionably loyal to a male’s eternal list of pleasantries, indulgence, and obscenities.

It is not surprising that even atheists (those who do not believe in the existence of a big, powerful and all-knowing man upstairs) but rather cherishes libertarianism and an obsession with the ‘here and now’ myth; do cheat in relationships. Again, men tend to be more vulnerable than their female counterparts are when it comes to letting go their pledges and allegiances to their supposedly ‘till dead do us part’ partners.

Truth is men will always cheat because partly, males are naturally programmed to be polygamous. King Solomon (the wisest human being who ever grazed our world), is a perfect example. His obsession with women is a spectacular phenomenon and so is his ironical partying shot ‘Vanity! Vanity! All is vanity’. Historically, wealthy men have had more than one sexual partner and numerous secret and open mistresses. Many cultures have been forced to embrace this as a helpless reality that defines a man’s nature and his quest to conquer. ‘The more the better’ myth is, according to many, a helpless ‘other’ side of a typical male-cheater.

In a relationship, a man is more likely to commit his ‘shaft’ and hardly his heart. Men appear to simply ‘like’ and are clueless as far as what ideal love means. They are never into but ever onto their lovers whom they simply regard as an object of quenching their desires, experiment with their curiosities and share a childhood adventure with. On the other hand, women will give their all---heart, body, and soul. They commit their emotions, energies, time and are ever motivated with a helpless conviction to appease their male partners. Women love. Women care. They like too and yet will cheat as well.

Men simply like and for that reason, they usually fall in love with ‘variety’: thick-lipped, thin-lipped, pitch-black, white-skinned, blonde, skinny, fat and the hell knows more. Men want to conquer as many hearts as possible. They want to explore and satisfy their never-ending sexual urge in the only way they know: by cheating!

Women, on the other hand, will cheat on two main conditions: if they feel betrayed by their sexual-partners or if they want something from a man be it cash, a favour or a special treat. Whether women cheat or not, they tend to love truthfully once at a time unlike men who can portray ‘love’ to multiple partners at a go.

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