Why Me GOD Part 4 - How to Move on During Tough Times
If the old doesn’t go, then the new cannot come
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PART 4 Moving on in Tough Times
Exerts are from?WHY ME GOD??Part 4?–?Ways to Cope with Tough Times
“The basic thing is that everyone wants happiness, no one wants suffering.” —?The Dalai Lama?
It is the nature of our philosophies, thoughts and beliefs that determines whether tough times make or break us.?Focusing on painful memories and situations can scare us.
There are different ways of dealing with this pain. Telling everyone about it and forever wondering why it happened to us is one way.?We might become bitter and let it destroy our happiness.
Alternatively, we could, in time, accept what happened and strive to be at peace with it emotionally. Although the memories might never fully fade away, we can aim to live life the best we can, regardless.?
What positive things might arise from tough times? We can focus on the positive aspects that might arise from the situation, which would not have happened had we not received it.
The positive aspects might be making new friends, starting new sports or jobs. Or by having a new-found compassion for others or helping make a positive mark on the world that is far greater than if the situation never occurred.?
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Some of the most compassionate and kindest people can be those who are able to empathize with other people’s suffering. That is because they, or someone close to them, has suffered, and then come out stronger and kinder.
They can deeply connect with others going through tough times and help them overcome their troubles.?
This is one way people who’ve overcome alcoholism, health problems and so on can become support group leaders, self-help gurus and writers in an area they understand.?
Have you discussed a health problem or injury with someone who hasn’t suffered from a health problem like yours? Did you think that their response seemed to be so out-of-touch that it was obvious that they had no idea what it’s like to be in your health situation??
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I have on occasions. I am amazed at how little empathy they had, but now, I understand why.?Of course, we can have compassion and empathy for others despite not having been in a similar situation.
Medical doctors and other health professionals, for example, can have empathy for their patients without having to have suffered from the health problems every patient has.
Affirmations to Move on in Tough Times
?“Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, vision cleared, ambition inspired, and success achieved.”
—?Helen Keller
“And happiness mainly comes from our own attitude, rather than from external factors. If your own mental attitude is correct, even if you remain in a hostile atmosphere, you feel happy.”
—?The Dalai Lama?
Boy! Did I need a dose of that! Having a rough week.?
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