Why Good Things Take Time

You’ve probably heard the saying, “Good things take time.” It might sound like just another grown-up phrase, but there’s actually some real truth behind it. Whether you’re learning to skateboard, cook, or even build a brand like your favorite YouTuber, taking the time to plan, think things through, and do it right can make all the difference. It’s not always the easiest or the most fun thing to hear when you’re eager to jump into something, but let’s take a look at why patience and careful thinking are key to success.

The Art of Building Something Worthwhile

Imagine you’re trying to build a treehouse. It sounds fun, right? You could just grab a bunch of wood, nails, and a hammer and start going at it. But what happens if you don’t measure the space in the tree first, or you don’t plan out where the walls or floor should go? Chances are, your treehouse might not turn out the way you imagined it. It might be too small, too wobbly, or even unsafe to climb into.

That’s the difference between rushing into something and taking the time to plan it out. When you take a moment to think things through — like where the treehouse will go, how big it should be, and what materials you need — it ends up being a much better project in the long run. And when it’s done, you feel proud because you know the effort you put in made it solid and long-lasting.

This idea isn’t just about treehouses. It works for everything you try to build, whether it’s a project for school, a skill like playing guitar, or even your own business one day. Rushing through things just to get them done might seem satisfying at the moment, but it rarely leads to something you’re truly proud of in the end.

Learning from My Dad’s Table

When I was younger, my dad used to build things around the house, like furniture. I remember one time he was making a table for the living room. To me, it looked like he was taking forever to start. I kept thinking, “Why doesn’t he just grab the wood and start building already?” But my dad didn’t work that way.

First, he measured the space where the table would go. Then he sketched out the design, making sure it would look nice and be sturdy. Finally, he bought the materials, double-checked everything, and talked it over with my mom to make sure she was happy with it too.(haha)

At the time, I didn’t get why he was going so slowly. But now I understand: he was making sure the table was done right the first time, so it would last for years and years. And guess what? It lasted about 25 years! I think my brother kept it when he bought my parent’s house, and it became a legendary table in our family. Now, I wish I had kept it. I feel blessed for the lessons my dad taught me.

Patience Is a Skill You Can Build

Patience isn’t something that magically appears. It’s a skill you have to practice, just like learning to play an instrument or riding a bike. It can be frustrating at first when you’re itching to finish something quickly, but every time you slow down and take your time, you’re actually getting better at being patient.

For example, think about drawing or painting. The first few times you try, you might rush and end up with something you’re not happy with. But when you take a step back, look at what you’re doing, and carefully plan each part of the picture, it usually turns out way better. The more you practice taking your time, the easier it becomes.

The Lesson — — — -> Think Before You Act

So the next time you’re excited to dive into something, whether it’s building a model, starting a new game, or creating your own YouTube channel, take a moment to pause. Think about what you want to achieve and how you can get there. It might feel slow at first, but the results will speak for themselves.

In the end, the time you spend planning and thinking things through makes everything you build stronger and better. It’s like my dad’s table — it took a while to make, but it lasted many years. Now I feel like going to my brother’s place to see if it’s still around, reminding me of the value of patience and care. And who knows? Maybe one day, the things you build — whether it’s a business, a piece of art, or something else — will inspire someone else to do the same.

Fibonacci Mann