Why Finger Pointing is the WORST Choice Ever!!
Written by Laura Enzor

Why Finger Pointing is the WORST Choice Ever!!


If you know anything about my story, you probably know that I used to be a fitness instructor. ????

I loved it, and the cherry on top is that I got paid to be in shape! ??

If you’ve read any of my posts, you’ll also know that Lyme disease blew that to pieces.?

But it didn’t just zap my physical energy and seemingly undo all the effort I had put into being fit.?

It disrupted ???? ??????????????.?

Threw it all out of whack!

During the initial phases of my illness, my mind went straight to the negative. Call them “low energy thoughts” or “stinkin’ thinkin’” or whatever else you want, but they made me feel that

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So, I blamed GOD and adopted the “Life isn’t fair” mantra. I approached everything and everybody with an “Ughhh!” and an eye roll even Simon Cowell would be proud of.?

And when I wouldn’t accept that this really was my life, here’s what I learned.

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It’s true. ????????’?? ???????? ???????? ???? ???????? ????’???? ??????????, ?????? ???? ?????? ?????? ????????, ?????? ?????? ???????????????????? ?????????? ???????? ???? ???????? ?????????? ?????? ???? ???????????????????????? ?????????????????? ??????.?

Life’s disruptions can blow us off course and make us feel shipwrecked. ???????????? ???????? ??????????, ???????? ???????????????? ???????????? ???? ???????? ???????? ???????? ?? ?????????? ???? ?????????? ?????????????? ???????????? ???????? ???? ???? ???????? ???? ????????.

Sure, I still had plenty of reasons to feel miserable with my body in pain and my internal organs stressed with the illness.?

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tap back into my inspiration,?accept the fact that this really was my life and start the healing process, and swim my way to the island I was destined to enjoy!

This can be true for you too! Blame keeps us stuck and you know from my story that I get it. It's not your fault, you're trying to cope. But what if you thought of this time in your life as being a launchpad for the next best version of yourself to emerge? Maybe this setback is setting you up for an even greater Comeback?

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Laura xxx

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JOSNA AKTER

Professional Digital Marketing and SEO Expert ,Graphics designer.

3 个月

In fact, there is no point in looking at others to sort out my life, in that case, if someone points fingers at me, it will not help me, because if I do my job well, then no one can hold my success.

Tanya Crocker Nagle

Transforming Lives + Building Nest Eggs Via the Power of Intentional Home Design ??| Lifestyle Revolutionizer??| 5? Vacation Rental Owner, Innovator+Strategist??| Designing Homes w/SOUL?? | Swim Mom ?? Sunrise Chaser??

4 个月

Laura Enzor? finger pointing gives someone else the power over your life.

Akram Khan (MA KAN)

Sr. Operations Admin_FedEx

4 个月

Thanks for sharing?!

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mika mika

Mécanicien portuaire engins de levage tracteur portuaire

4 个月

Great post

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Rosemarie Rutecki, PharmD, IFMCP

Triple Your Energy and Well-Being with Our Science-Backed Holistic Blueprint ?? Board Certified Functional Medicine Practitioner ??

4 个月

I agree, Laura Enzor?. Resilience is key when life throws us off course.

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