Why It Feels Like "Something's Missing"? (And How To Close The Gap)

Why It Feels Like "Something's Missing" (And How To Close The Gap)

Ever feel like no matter how HARD you work, something's missing?

I know exactly how you feel because I used to feel the same way.

That's why I no longer define success by my external accomplishments.

See, I thought being a partner in a multi-million dollar company meant I’d arrived, but it didn’t.

I thought facilitating $30K days, $50K weeks, and $100K months for clients would make me feel like a badass coach, but it didn’t.

I thought selling 5 and 6 figure packages would make me feel successful, but it didn’t.

See, I spent years believing that my worth was attached to my bank balance, bimmer, designer clothes, reputation, etc only to find out the hard way that none of that stuff made me FEEL like the rock star everyone in my social circle thought I was.

We give our power away when we believe that ANYONE or ANYTHING outside of ourselves determines our worth, our value, or what’s possible for us.

I believe that the biggest reason so many coaches don’t unleash their potential is because they don’t believe they are enough.

This is why most work themselves into exhaustion trying to prove themselves, but burnout before ever achieving their goals.

The real problem is that we can’t outperform our self image.

To achieve and sustain higher levels of success, I’ve found that working harder is NOT the answer.

Who we’re BEING is the ultimate strategy.

This is why I no longer measure my success based on what I do or have.

I evaluate my performance at the end of each day in what I call my “winning journal” and I encourage my clients to do the same.

My criteria for success now looks like this:

? speaking my truth unapologetically

? acting from purpose and desire

? feeling my feels and coming back to truth

? being present unattached to the past or the future

? releasing stories that no longer serve me

NOT:

? how many posts or live streams I create

? working from sunup to sundown

? stuffing my feelings and “powering through”

? dwelling in what was or worrying about what could go wrong

? pulling myself apart over "likes", video views, or other vanity metrics

Redefining success in this way has drawn more clients, cash, and other opportunities TO ME than any amount of efforting ever has.

More importantly, I know what peace of mind and real FREEDOM feel like.

Is your current definition of success delivering the results you hoped for?

If not, today’s as good a day as any to change it, yes?

Desiree

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Tiffany Castagno

Empowering People Leaders & organizations to elevate their Cultures, Employer Brands, & build sustainable systems focused on Engagement, Retention, Equity, and Inclusion | Speaker | Author | Culture & Community Builder

4 年

AMAZING! AGREED!!!! Thanks for sharing this important message!

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