Why is everything so urgent? + WIN Free tickets to Web 3 Tales ?

Hey,

You know, something I have been thinking about after Monalisa from Zenith mentioned it in our?roundtable last week, is this?sense of urgency?we have adopted in Web 3.

An urgency to build a business and get funding NOW, to get the great big salary NOW, to have people booking us up as speakers, as consultants NOW.?Without having put the hard work in.

There is this feeling that 'overnight success' is actually REAL. For some few, yes it is, they made the right decisions at the right time, and some divine intervention happened, or luck. But the real hard truth is this; building a business, a brand, a name for yourself and results at work takes?time.?Time and energy.?In fact, if you follow the belief of 'success happens quickly', then you will find yourself with?no time and no energy and no success,?or some- but no energy to enjoy it, straight on to the next thing.

Why do we have such a warped idea of success in Web 3? Why do we feel we need to be an overnight success and who has facilitated this?

Maybe it's because of the Pepe coins, the ICO era, the bull runs? Who got the participants in this industry thinking that this ' making $$ ' overnight is honestly, sustainable? It's not.

I even fell in to this trap when I was a brand new coach. I had made the big $$'s as a CMO in Web 3, surely I should be making that same amount straight away? I got sucked into the 'high ticket' coaching trap until I was reminded by my own coach, "wait...what's the rush?" It happens to the best of us.

So what's the better solution, how do we develop the mindset to take it slower?

We look ahead and ask ourself important questions;

What is it, that's driving me to work this way? To feel this pressure, this urgency to have [insert goal i.e a fully fledged business built in year 1 ] ? Is it true to my values?

What happens if i don't work this way?

What are the benefits? What will life look like for me?

Without the answers, we can't see outside of the urgency.

Take 5 minutes to answer them, you can even reply in this email, I'll get right back to you ??

Weekly Q&A

Q: You keep talking about 'non-negotiables', but what are they and how do I know how to set them?

A: Great question! Non-negotiables are basically your set of life rules. What do you say yes to? What do you say no to? They're a form of boundary setting that make life incredibly fulfilling.

My non-negotiables are as simple as this; no laptop after 7pm, doggie walks with no looking at phones, calls after 7pm only if it's coaching ( my love!) and no calls before 11am.

So take a second to sit and think about what you are saying yes to too much. What do you need to do to feel good everyday without fail? Do you say yes to conferences once a month, but no more? Make a list and decide what is absolutely a must and what is a 'nice to have'.

These non-negotiables make decision making incredibly easy and help you to create healthy boundaries around your time and energy, your future self will thank you!

Win free tickets to?Web 3 Tales, Zagreb ?

Powered by the non-profit Alice in Blockchains, Web3 Tales is a one-of-a-kind conference with a female heavy line-up, one of the main reasons I decided to put Web 3 and Thrive forward as their media partner!

I am giving away 2 free tickets ( travel not included ) for 2 people to enjoy the incredibly curated event.

To win, simply share the?latest episode of Web 3 and Thrive?with your followers on Linkedin ( tagging the Bubbling Out page) or?Twitter @emilyinweb3.?I will contact you by the end of the week!

Grab your coaching spot!

Are you a leader who wants to regain?control of their time?and energy, and finally feel excited, not exhausted by work?

Maybe you're?part of a team?and know?your leaders?could all do with some help dealing with the constant?changes?in the market to collaborate and lead better?

I have?2 spots opening in May,?for?individuals and teams. If that sounds interesting, just book in a call to find out more.

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