Why Do Some Individuals Seem to THRIVE on Chaos & Conflict?
Anthony Mazzella, Ph.D.
Psychotherapy & Psychoanalysis | Facilitating Change | Avid Cyclist
For some of us, or someone we know, there seems to be a relentless pursuit of emotional turmoil. I want to think about why some individuals are addicted to creating chaos and how it's deeply rooted in their psychological makeup- which, in my opinion, is formed in the earliest years of development
?? You may have noticed that someone you know tends to strategically exploit situational vulnerabilities, such as bringing up topics designed to unleash maximum emotional impact.
?? Ever wondered why narcissists revel in conflict? These individuals derive immense gratification and satisfaction - to be clear, not pleasure, and it does not make them 'happy'- when in a state of inner or interpersonal chaos, conflict and turmoil. It's not just a game for them – it's a dark pleasure that satisfies their deepest desires.
?? Intervention Unveiled: Don't be a victim of narcissistic chaos! It is important to have powerful intervention strategies at your fingertips. These are strategies that you can use for yourself, or with a loved one. Tools, from containment tactics to ego-supportive interventions, will help you to navigate the storm created by chaos-seeking narcissists.
?? Takeaways that Pack a Punch: 1?? Narcissists create chaos to relive the turbulent past with early caregivers. 2?? Chaos is the playground where narcissists find gratification and satisfaction. 3?? Gain intervention strategies – your ultimate arsenal against narcissistic chaos!
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