Why Do I Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners? By Grace Fraga, IAP Certified Relationship Coach
Grace Fraga
THE STATE OF GRACE - Comedian, Actress, Podcaster, Author, Relationship Coach, Writer, Educator & Producer. Breast Cancer Survivor. Buddha with Booty ????????
Have you ever found yourself stuck in a cycle of toxic or emotionally unavailable relationships? You’re not alone! Many of us unconsciously attract what feels familiar—even if it’s unhealthy. But the good news? You can break the cycle and start attracting the love you deserve.
?? Why Does This Happen?
Our brains seek out familiar dynamics from childhood, a concept called repetition compulsion. If you had to earn love growing up, you may unknowingly choose partners who make you chase affection.
?? **Common Dating Patterns to Watch For:
?? The Familiar Trap – Attracting partners who mirror childhood relationships.
?? The Fixer-Upper Syndrome – Trying to “save” or “fix” emotionally unavailable people.
?? Ignoring Red Flags – Overlooking warning signs because of strong chemistry.
?? How to Break Free:
? Self-Reflection – Identify patterns in past relationships.
? Heal Old Wounds – Build confidence and set firm boundaries.
? Set Non-Negotiables – Define the key traits your ideal partner must have.
? Trust Your Gut – Listen to your intuition and act on red flags early.
? Ready to Attract Healthier Love? Watch the full episode of Relationship Coaching Live for all the insights! ?? https://youtube.com/live/lywfUq_zXfM?feature=share
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