Why do brilliant leaders resist change?
Michelle Awuku-Tatum
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Have you ever wondered why even the most brilliant leaders - including you - might resist changes they know make sense? It's not about intelligence but how our brains are wired.
We're biologically programmed to prioritize safety and familiarity, making change feel threatening even when we know it's necessary.
What's fascinating is that the very strengths that propelled our most talented leaders forward – their expertise, dedication, and proven methods – can become the anchors holding them back.
Here are three patterns I have encountered in my executive coaching work:
These resistance patterns reveal our fears and close our eyes to growth opportunities. The key is to shift our perspective from seeing change as a threat to viewing it as expanding our capabilities.
So, how do we move past these patterns?
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Reframe change as skill enhancement rather than skill replacement:
The path forward isn't about completely reinventing yourself but expanding your leadership toolkit. Think of it as learning a new language – you don't forget your mother tongue; you gain new ways of communicating, connecting, and leading.
Reflect to:
Create safe experiments to practice letting go of control in low-risk situations, for example:
This week, choose one small experiment in letting go. Notice what it teaches you about your leadership style and the untapped potential in your team.?
Found this helpful? Share with a fellow leader and discuss: "What's the smallest change you could make this week that feels uncomfortable but manageable?"
With love and support, Michelle
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1 个月Michelle, me parece muy acertado cómo has identificado esos patrones que nos impiden abrazar el cambio, a pesar de saber que es beneficioso. Nuestra tendencia a buscar seguridad, más que la falta de inteligencia, es la verdadera barrera. Me resuena especialmente la idea de replantear el cambio como una mejora de habilidades y de experimentar en entornos seguros para practicar el dejar ir.
Strategic thinker and board advisor shaping alliances and innovation to deliver real-world impact, influence, and economic value.
1 个月Michelle, this is an insightful and empowering perspective on why even brilliant leaders resist change! Your breakdown of resistance patterns highlights how emotional barriers, not just logic, often hold leaders back. The reframing of change as skill enhancement rather than replacement is a powerful mindset shift. One additional insight is the role of emotional intelligence in navigating change, leaders who actively develop self-awareness, empathy, and adaptability tend to transition more smoothly. Understanding not just what to change but how people feel about it is key to overcoming resistance. As John C. Maxwell said, "Change is inevitable. Growth is optional." Great leaders embrace both.
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1 个月Great insights to reframe leaders perspective about change!
Momentum Coach: Improve Your Performance & Impact as an Executive | Uplevel your Team Engagement & Performance | 20+ Years in Tech with Fortune 50, 100 & 500 Companies | ICF Certified Coach | Author
1 个月Patterns are brain's super specialty. And the brain can be rewired, new intentional patterns can replace the old default ones. This understanding doesn't make changing habits easier, it helps knowing that there's a result and life you want at the other end of the journey.
Peter Senge's quote got me thinking... Perhaps, we need to have intrinsic motivation to change, and no amount of external pressure will help us take action