Why Disagreement is Healthy and Debate is Necessary
Richard Arnott
Author: The Advanced Certificate for the Executive Assistant: ACEA?? | Founder and CEO ACEA Training | Director BMTG (UK) Ltd | Executive Support Magazine Editorial Board Member
I had to laugh earlier this week when an old friend posted something on LinkedIn complaining about some of the debates happening on the platform. They wondered why people couldn’t just agree on everything and wouldn’t the world be a wonderful place if we all did? Of course, what they really meant was that they didn’t like seeing posts where people challenged their personal views or beliefs or presented contrary opinions to theirs.
But that’s precisely the point—disagreement isn’t a problem; it’s a necessity.
The Illusion of Universal Agreement
The idea that we should all just agree is not only unrealistic but also counterproductive. Disagreement is the foundation of progress. If everyone simply nodded along, we’d never test ideas, improve our thinking, or innovate. The great breakthroughs in science, politics, and business have all come from people daring to challenge the accepted view.
And let’s be honest—the world is not a utopia where we all hold hands and see things the same way. It’s a tough, complex place, full of competing interests, evolving perspectives, and differing experiences. That’s not a flaw; that’s just reality. Look at the USA in the last 2 weeks.
Yet, despite this, there’s a growing tendency for some to take offence at even the mildest disagreement, as if the mere presence of a different perspective somehow threatens their carefully curated,safe, rose-tinted view of the world. But being challenged isn’t an attack—it’s an opportunity to think, learn, and grow. If an idea can’t withstand scrutiny, perhaps it wasn’t as strong as it seemed in the first place.
Debate is Not a Bad Thing
Some people treat disagreement as something inherently negative, but healthy debate is essential for strong decision-making. A good debate isn’t about personal attacks or shouting the loudest; it’s about sharpening ideas, testing assumptions, and refining arguments.
Done properly, debate:
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The best leaders, strategists, and innovators understand this. They actively seek out different viewpoints, knowing that the strongest ideas are those that have been tested in the fire of rigorous discussion.
The Real World is Tough—Better to Face It Head-On
The reality is, the world isn’t built on agreement. It’s competitive, challenging, and often unfair. Sheltering ourselves from opposing views doesn’t prepare us for real-life situations where we need to negotiate, defend our ideas, or adapt to new information.
Pretending disagreement is a problem to be eradicated does a disservice to individuals, businesses, and society as a whole. Growth often comes from discomfort. If you’re never challenged, you’re not learning. If no one ever disagrees with you, you’re either a rare genius (unlikely) or surrounded by people who don’t feel safe to speak up (far more likely).
Yet some seem determined to create a world where dissent is treated as hostility and opposing views are seen as personal betrayals. This kind of mindset doesn’t lead to progress—it leads to intellectual stagnation and fragility. The real world doesn’t operate on the principle of universal agreement, and the sooner we accept that, the better prepared we’ll be for the challenges life throws at us.
Embracing Disagreement as a Strength
Rather than avoiding disagreement, we should embrace it as an opportunity. It forces us to think more deeply, communicate more effectively, and refine our ideas. The world is not an echo chamber, nor should it be. The best results come from open, honest, and sometimes uncomfortable discussions.
Whilst I hold strong views on certain subjects, I am fully aware that others hold contrary views. That does not stop me from airing my views, and I would certainly never stop them from airing theirs. After all, that’s how real progress happens—through discussion, debate, and the willingness to listen as well as speak.
If you’ve enjoyed this perspective (or even if you disagree but enjoy a good debate), feel free to follow me, connect, repost the article or share your thoughts. Let’s keep the all conversations going—after all, that’s what makes LinkedIn a platform worth engaging with!