Why Dating Sites Do Not Work And What To Do

Here is a brief overview of the dating situation using the example of romantic dating. (After all, this is what both men and women are after when they visit dating sites and social networks, or when they simply “go out for a walk.”) What to do? The sexual factor is built into us, Homo sapiens, from birth and it is necessary to satisfy yourself somehow. And, as you know, “magic hands” do not suit everyone because, among other things, sooner or later you will feel like a complete freak, whom no one needs. From the point of view of normal functioning of psyche, this is not very cool. At the same time, you will be absolutely right: after all, only a complete fool does not try to change his or her own life for the better.

Sure, the age of Internet gave each of us a new option that was inaccessible before: a possibility to meet and communicate with a huge number of people around the world. Yes, that is definitely cool! And, people use this option with pleasure, but not always successfully. For example, there are always a lot of people, a seemingly large selection on romantic dating sites. However, on practice, a human life is not enough time to go through all these “potential candidates” in the hopes of finding a 100% suitable partner after a huge number of sometimes quite meaningless dates! And, this is true because the potential probability of finding “the one” in all this variety and splendor of boobs and biceps is 1 to 293. Why 293? Because according to scientific research this is the number of subtypes that exist within the biological type Homo sapiens; simply put, there are 293 types of people. (To learn more about this research see https://www.humanpopulationacademy.org/faq/.) And so, the human mind comes to a standstill: there are so many people around, but there is no result!

Rather, there is a result, but not quite the one that was expected since yet another relationship does not work out from the very beginning or falls apart later on!!! The result is that the person is back on dating sites! And, some people, as a result, become regular visitors of these sites for the rest of their lives. Others, finally give up on finding “the one and only” after several unsuccessful unions, and become “serial daters,” who proudly declare that they do not need anyone. What do they get in the end? Well, they get to enjoy someone’s “leftovers” from the “one night stand” category. However, there is one more category – those people, who choose to bear with it. They do not want such a difficult fate for themselves anymore, and force themselves to stay in relationships that do not suit them at all just so they do not have to return to those terrible dating sites (or to searching in any other ways). They console themselves with that at least they are not alone and can post photos of their supposedly happy faces on some social platform. And, according to unofficial statistics, this is the case in 90% of relationships.

Let’s not go into very sad things like “romantic scams” or, in other words, fraud. It can be a scam for money, virtual sex or real sex (which is also fraud because a woman is told that here people are looking for relationships when in fact no one is looking for anything except sex). Or it can take the form of replenishment of someone’s private or public porn resources with your intimate photos. Here, it is also possible to add “entertainment at someone else’s expense” in the form of correspondence for years and years when people are “like in a relationship,” while at the other end sits, for example, a prisoner, or a patient of a mental institution, or someone else who is already clearly incapable of any relationship “in real life.” Does that sound familiar? Let me answer for you: YES. Well, your experience of this kind is not unique, since even on the largest and most popular dating sites up to 90% of profiles can be scammer’s profiles. The bottom line is that a lot of time and effort gets wasted, people become disappointed in themselves, their luck and in ever finding someone, wallets get empties and fates – broken.

So, no matter how optimistic you are, in this situation, a person, who is looking for a romantic partner has a very little chance of finding someone truly compatible. And there is nothing to be done about this because that is just how the modern dating system works. It is not profitable for it if you find someone..."

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