Why Business Leaders Hire Coaches
Conor Neill
President @ Vistage Spain | Accelerating Business Growth | Senior Lecturer @ IESE Business School
This article was originally published at https://conorneill.com/2018/08/26/why-business-leaders-hire-coaches/
This list is an extensive summary of reasons why Business Leaders seek the support of an Executive Coach or Mentor either independently or through an organisation like Vistage.
This list is based on my personal experience. I’ve been working on leadership development for over a decade through my roles at IESE Business School, Entrepreneurs Organisation and Vistage. I’ve come across hundreds of coaches and thousands of business leaders who have benefitted from the support of a coach.
"A coach is someone who tells you what you don’t want to hear, who has you see what you don’t want to see, so you can be who you have always known you could be” Tom Landry
Why do Business Leaders seek the Support of an Executive Coach?
It is no sign of weakness to seek a coach, it demonstrates great maturity. The weak person hides from their shortcomings; it takes courage to face up to the honest truth of who I am being today.
Let's look at some of the triggers that I have seen that can begin the search:
I have a specific need
- I regularly fail to achieve results (typically in one specific area)
- I want something specific (a promotion, more money, get fit, better golf handicap)
- I am frustrated at myself and nothing seems to be working
- I cannot relate effectively with somebody (children, parents, boss, team mates, senior leaders, wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend)
- I’m having a conflict with a colleague.
- I am burnt out/overwhelmed and need to release some of the pressure
Someone Else tells me that I Need a Coach
- HR assigns coaches to all senior managers
- HR puts me on “fast track”
- HR identifies me as “needs improvement” but valuable enough to make the effort
- My friend/wife/husband/boss has told me that I have to make changes
Conditions change
- I have been fired or my job made redundant
- I start a new business
- I change career path or change company
- I need new skills for my role (public speaking, writing, leading, managing others)
I am Stuck
- I don’t know what I want (but I know that where I am now is not it)
- I have been passed over for promotion
- I need some help advancing my career, my career trajectory has hit a plateau.
- I feel bored with my life
- I feel that my improvement has stopped in an area of passion (golf, tennis, fitness)
- I feel that I am missing out on life (FOMO)
My Leadership is Ineffective
- We don’t have a strategy.
- It takes too long to get things done.
- Turnover is high.
- My employees do not take responsibility for results
- The leadership team is not moving in the same direction.
- I need to take my Leadership Team or my Board to the next level.
I want to “Win”
- I want to achieve something that will give me a sense of winning
- I want to increase my life challenge, I want to avoid complacency
I want to be Inspired
- I wish to experience an excellent role model
- I want to see how you coach/lead me, what techniques you use
I want Validation
- I have had some recent setbacks and need some external validation that I am on track
- I lack a strong group of supportive friends
- I lack a trusted confidante who will be fully honest
- I need clear, objective and usable feedback
"Without a coach, people will never reach their maximum capabilities” Bob Nardelli, CEO of Home Depot
The Coach’s Perspective on Executive Performance
What about you? Have you ever worked with a Coach?
What other situations or triggers would cause someone to see out Executive Coaching? What is missing? When have you sought out coaching?
About Conor Neill
Conor Neill is the President of Vistage, Spain and a Professor at IESE Business School. His mission is to improve the effectiveness and enhance the lives of CEOs and key executives. Read more of his articles at https://www.conorneill.com
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5 年I just love how you are, an inch close, to start laughing, every now and then in the seflmade videos :D
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5 年Very interesting. I would describe myself as of right now between state #2 & state # 4 .
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5 年Excellent article about the importance of having a coach in your life. A must read one!
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6 年Impressively clear, consensus-reality based list. Yes, it is spot on... and - there are also less tangible reasons that bring business leaders to coaching. Recognising (and not recognising) where their own beliefs or habits are holding them back, needing courage to step up to disrupt an established system, redefining their own values in the context of business needs - this is often where the real work begins.?
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6 年It's very well synthesized. There is a lot of work in prospect for a coach! what is certain is that a well-stated problem is a problem half solved ...