Why are the brutal assaults against women happening repeatedly?
Kiran Bedi
24th Lt Governor Puducherry, Founder at India Vision Foundation and Navjyoti India Foundation
An Open Letter. ( Part One)
Why are the brutal assaults against women happening repeatedly?
It is because we have not gone all out as we did for fighting against terrorism. We invested heavily in fighting terror. We became non-sparing.
Unless sexual assaults against women also assume the same gravity and collective anguish, we shall continue having women in India stalked and situationally ravaged. Even the media is running out of space and time to focus on which one to highlight. It’s a terrible environment to live with when we know for sure what can be done with a sense of collective urgency.
This crime of assaulting women to meet the sexual needs of the deprived is widespread and under-reported. It attacks one vulnerable woman, one lone voice, one life, which many times is not recorded as she reports. She also does not have, ( in many cases) the support of her family to report, as it is a matter of social shame for them. It’s left to the victim to raise her voice and fight to die or even get burnt one day. I am not being dramatic. I am stating only what is happening. It’s real.
My deep worry is while we are all seeking solutions to the problem we appear to be shying away knowingly or unknowingly from addressing the main ROOT of the problem. It is Parenting and School Education.
Without treating the real source of this mental disease we are fire fighting and being scared daily. Indian society is getting maligned because of the few. Our reputation as a country is being hit.
As I ask myself, what is the root of this malaise of sexual assaults? Who is committing these? Where are these sick men coming from? Who are they? Are they born to be the way they became? What makes them commit this brutality? Are they demons and have no humanity in them? What made them this way?
Answers to these questions cut across social disciplines and social milieu.
I am addressing these from my limited knowledge and experience of law enforcement and as a student of social sciences, including having worked with such ‘inhuman’(?) characters through my own Non-Profit Organization over the last three decades.
My simple question is are these men not out of the wombs of a mother? Have they not had a home and a family with elders? Have they not had siblings? Have they not been loved and cared for by their kith and kin?
Have they not had the lap of their parents and grandparents? Or are they the victim of family neglect themselves and seen their own mothers and sisters ill-treated in their own homes and think this is a way of life.
I have conversed with several such accused during my responsibility as a serving police officer, later as in-charge of prison administration, alongside running family counseling centers from my NGOs, my learnt answer is these delinquents are a product of family neglect, bad company with bad habits and exposure to porn, living a life merely to meet carnal needs, paid or demanded at any cost.
Their families are helpless. Their mothers are scared of even asking their sons simple questions of their whereabouts. Their fathers give up on them or are irresponsible themselves, or who knows are scared of them too.
They are dropouts of their schools. They had teachers who too let them go. When failing in exams, they let them fail. They never indulged in perusing them to be corrected. They too gave up on them.
Had the parents and the school teachers not given up on them they would not be roaming or driving the streets looking for vulnerable women victims. Or girls even at home? Or in neighborhoods.
We also do not have a police system that tracks such persons and dropouts and identifies them early to see they do not turn ruffians of their localities or neighborhoods, by way of beat policing system. Or the village police officers system. ( as being considered now by Telangana Police).
The community too either becomes indifferent or gives up for fear of being retaliated.
This is why an effective beat police system has to be put in place. This means police officers in charge of specified areas forming area liaison groups with the community, schools, and neighborhood watch groups and the panchayats for community policing.
No child is born deviant. It’s the neglect which makes him so. And as time passes he graduates himself into a life of delinquency. The family and the school has to take responsibility for the misadventures of their inhuman products with or without the direct help of beat police officer.
We need to realize that unattended deviant is the potential perpetrator of this crime who needs to be held tracked by law. But the law does not include this. (It can be at the time of taking sureties).
Preventive policing implies this. Hence doing so moves us into the realm of crime prevention. And there are laws. This is where the beat system of policing has to work. Where the local police station knows and maintains records of possible or potential delinquents. We maintained in Delhi Police called Rough Register of those who had deviancy in the upbringing. And kept watch or kept track. Involve family counseling early on.
Effective grass-root policing is the answer to such mushrooming. But this requires investments into more grass-root policing. More feet on the ground with the right kind of training for community policing. We must sustain the good practices of our predecessors.
The second major reason for high vulnerability for our daughters is the absence of adequate visible mobile police. Which responds to emergency calls urgently.
They need to be linked to the police stations and the beat officers. Now with the technology available, the beat officers can have the access to verify the person before them as regards past records.
We could use the Nirbhaya Fund for this purpose. Invest in fear of increased mobile presence which increases the chances of getting caught, arrest or detain according to the situation.
Then comes investigation and prosecution. How scientifically and expeditiously we do. How fast is the trial. How certain is the punishment. And if during the trial if any of the accused is released on bail it is conditional to ensure he is afraid of repeating the crime. The sureties must be held vicariously liable in the event the person they stood for, violates the conditions of bail. Currently, it is the weakest link.
Any person released from the prison with a background of such crimes must be known down to the beat staff. The beat police officer then is accountable to take charge and ensure sureties fulfill their responsibility. Failing which police moves for cancellation and forfeiture of their sureties.
There needs to be close internal coordination in the criminal justice system, which is weak at present. Which is why left-hand does not know what the right hand is doing. While these brutes are wild and hungry.
Meanwhile, we keep failing out daughters, without whom there can be no joy and laughter in the homes.
***So much more can be said on how we reform and work with sex offenders inside the jail, even if on the death row. But this and more requires another article.
***also what value education be mandated for all which instills humanity even if they drop out.
***These shall be addressed in the next piece. Along with explanations of the 6 P model of crime prevention already suggested.
Crimes can be prevented provided we are willing to dissect every incident to learn lessons for each crime that occurs.
Nirbhaya, Unnnao, and Telegana are case studies and evidence of what has been said. All three were preventable.
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5 年Respected ma’am, Wish you were still on the force ????????. Police reforms in India are overdue.
Happiness Coach, Owner of Manufacturing Company and General Secretary of NGO and Author and Writer
5 年plausible thoughts mam.... as a girl or woman how and what can we do...women as a mother , sister and daughter. i would like to share my view, rather i am not too knowledgeable... but mam... deformation of society started when we forget our moral, ethics and values as a man and woman both.
Student at Adani Institute Of Infrastructure
5 年Because there is never a breakthrough?
Director at Vaishno Sai Quality Consultants Pvt Ltd Naveli Enterprise Solutions
5 年Such valid points , especially where you have mentioned - "My simple question is are these men not out of the wombs of a mother? Have they not had a home and a family with elders? Have they not had siblings? Have they not been loved and cared for by their kith and kin? " If these things are addressed right from the childhood our society will be a much better place to live in.
MBA professional (HR / Marketing)
5 年Completely agree with your views , ideas , suggestions mam , these things need to be executed soon or in a effective way...To stop these inhuman acts... Kiran Bedi mam..????