Who Were You Before You Were Told Who You Should Be?

Who Were You Before You Were Told Who You Should Be?

Underneath the titles, the to-do lists, and the expectations, there’s a version of you that’s been waiting to be seen again. Before you were a leader, a mother, a partner—you were YOU.

And she’s still in there.

But when was the last time you let yourself fully be her? When was the last time you made a decision based purely on what felt right instead of what was expected?

This is where Human Design comes in. It’s one of my favorite tools to help women like you reconnect with their true selves.

? Your energy type tells you how you’re meant to operate.

? Your strategy tells you how to move through life with ease.

? Your authority shows you how to trust yourself again.

Most of us are taught to override our natural design from a young age—to seek approval, to hustle, to push, to prove. And then we wonder why we feel out of alignment.

So this week’s challenge: Do something that feels like home to you.

?? Maybe it’s an old hobby you abandoned.

?? Maybe it’s wearing that bold lipstick you used to love.

?? Maybe it’s making a decision without overanalyzing it for once.

Just one thing—no justification, no guilt.

Need a starting point? Book a free Work/Life Audit, and let’s find out what alignment really looks like for you.


xoxo - Alex

Niels Martin

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This perspective on self-love is refreshing! I'd love to know, what practical steps do you recommend for someone looking to reconnect with their boldness? ?? Please send me a connection request, I’d be happy to chat!

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