WHO is Stopping You?
Happy Bains
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The divine and simple answer is that no one is stopping you but yourself.
There is a significant difference between WISHING for things and being READY to receive it. No one is ready for a thing until they believe they can acquire it.
A profound poet has passionately and correctly stated this pure universal truth through these meaningful lines:
"I bargained with Life for a penny,
And Life would pay no more,
However, I begged at the evening
When I counted my scanty store.
"For Life is a just employer,
He gives you what you ask,
But once you have set the wages,
Why, you must bear the task.
"I worked for a menial's hire,
Only to learn, dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of Life,
Life would have willingly paid."
There is smooth guidance for each of us; we shall hear the perfect word by lowly listening. The perfect world? DESIRE or, in other words, PURPOSE.
How can one harness and use the power of Desire or Purpose?
This article will open up all the rusted or locked doors of abundance.
Imagine: While reading this today, you can wish for ONE wish that will start to come true 24 hours from now. What one wish you will want for?
Love, Sex, Money, Power, Fame, Contentment, Peace of Mind, Attractive Personality, Successful Lifestyle or simply Happiness?
Please pause reading here for a few seconds, close your beautiful eyes and wish it happily...
And once you have wished that wish, (Did you notice that anyone STOPPED you?) No one can read your MIND. Neither Stop you from THINKING about what you want and wish for. It is whether we STOP ourselves or we permit others to Stop us.
PERSONAL STOPPING DEPARTMENT.
Some possible reasons may include FEAR, Fear of Failure or Rejection, Lack of Confidence, Criticism, Lack of Motivation, Insufficient Resources or Opportunities, a Lazy or Negative Mindset, or simply not taking action toward achieving goals.
It's essential to identify any problems and obstacles that may be holding you back and work towards overcoming them to reach your full potential and positively become a UNSTOPPABLE person.
Below is my Happy's Solution Strategies formula to solve any problems in your personal or professional Life.
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Now, please take your personal inventory and write down the best and simplest answer that comes to your mind without stressing too much.
Q: In Personal areas, WHO is Stopping you from becoming the most loveable and likeable person?
Is it your spouse, life partner, children, parents, neighbours, community circle or friends? Or yourself?
Answer that person and use Happy's Solution Strategies to solve the problem become UNSTOPPABLE.
Q: In your Job or Career path, WHO is Stopping you from becoming the most valuable person in the company/organization? Or yourself?
Is it your co-worker/colleague, supervisor, manager or boss? Or yourself?
Answer that person and use Happy's Solution Strategies to solve the problem become UNSTOPPABLE.
Q: In your Business, WHO is Stopping you from becoming the world's most successful entrepreneur?
Is it your employee, management, business partners, clients/audience, promoters/marketer, competitors, religious leaders, political authorities, investors, or government? Or yourself?
Answer that person and use Happy's Solution Strategies to solve the problem become UNSTOPPABLE.
Or simply understand WHO is Stopping You? -
WHO stands for W= World, H= Human, or O= Ourselves?
What is the worst thing that could happen?
As experts say, see the end first for a clear picture of Life's purpose.
In reality, sometimes, we finally land our dream job or career path, but after a while, we are already hunting for a better one. We suddenly win the lottery and buy an expensive home and car but then decide we can't live without a yacht. We finally win the heart of the perfect man or beautiful woman we've been pining for and suddenly find we have a wandering eye.
People can be greedy. (We should always remember that everything we have now and all the resources and people we love will eventually disappear.)
The Stoics believed that these kinds of desires and ambitions were not worth pursuing. The objective of the virtuous person is to reach a state of tranquillity (apathia), the absence of negative feelings such as fear, stress, anxiety, shame, vanity, and anger, and the presence of positive emotions and feelings such as bonding, joy, happiness, love, serenity, and gratitude.
Worrying that something or somebody is STOPPING us that is beyond our control accomplishes nothing and gives us boredom and frustration. We should practice daily to have a clear sense of what we can improve and can't, which will allow us to resist giving in to negative emotions or mindset.
Awareness of the impermanence of things does not have to make us fail or sad; it should help us see more, do more, give more, love more, respect more, care more and love the divine present moment and those surrounding us.
Happy idea: Purposefully living in the moment/now. STOP regretting the painful past and fearing the future. NOW and TODAY are all you have, so make the most of it each second of each day. Make it worth remembering and make each moment an occasion to be happy and UNSTOPPABLE! _________________________________________________________________
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1 年WISHING for things and being READY?are completely different. Based on my experience and my interaction with many people, I've discovered that some people have the opportunity of finally getting what they wanted but they sabotage those opportunities in front of them, others get what they wanted but they are not capable to retain that. ?? The desired Love, big Job opportunities, Great clients, etc.