Who Smiles After Their Brain Tumor is Diagnosed?

Who Smiles After Their Brain Tumor is Diagnosed?

Yesterday started out as a typical emergency department shift. I was working with a great team and a steady influx of patients all evening. At 8 pm paramedics rolled in with an elderly, demented lady from a nursing home with right-sided weakness that began yesterday. A CT scan uncovered a golf-ball sized tumor with swelling. She had a history of breast cancer so this likely represented a metastatic lesion. Typical care ensued -- fluids, steroids, comfort medications and a call to the hospitalist for admission.

I then phoned the patient's daughter (and power of attorney) to suggest that she and other family members begin discussing how aggressive they wanted the treatment plan to be. The daughter interrupted, "Doctor, could you just go to my mom's bedside and say 'Dr. Peters, you were right'?" After my "Huh?" she explained "My mom is smart and knows her body. She has a PhD in both psychology and religion. Last month, a doctor told us she has progressive, incurable dementia. When he left the room my mom turned to me and said 'Well, yes, I'm certainly more confused but I'm not demented. They just haven't figured out what this is.'"

So, I went to her room, sat down, described the situation, and ended with "Dr. Peters, you were right." She turned to me beaming with pride and confidence and said "I knew it!" 

She certainly did.

I slipped a copy of her CV that I found online into her chart. I wanted everyone to know this amazing woman that all of us were privileged to care for.

(Note: Patient name changed and images obtained from public domain.)

Rhonda Leeson

Office Manager at Purely Smiles Dental / Yasmin Farid, D.D.S

7 年

A listening ear is sometimes all the family and patient needs. The in depth beauty of this story is most touching. Thank you for sharing it and for listening ????????

Claudine Fasse

Business Operations Leader and Advisor/Executive and Life Coach/Strategy Implementation/Executive Recruiting

7 年

Great article Dr Scaletta!! Hope all is well with you!

Leah Terrell, MSN, RNC-MNN

Nurse Manager of Mother/Baby, Transition Nursery, and Lactation at Woman's Hospital

7 年

As a brain tumor patient and survivor myself, this article caught my attention. Great read...Listen to the patient!

Hector de Jesus JD MBA RN FACHE

Educating and empowering clients to help protect their loved ones and preserve their legacy.

7 年

Great article! Very sobering too. We often forget to look at the life history of our patients and what they have to offer us as well.

Jen Ullrich

People, process and profit - executive management consultant specializing in development of talent, products, programs and operations.

7 年

Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful.

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