Who is scripting YOUR story? Be the Designer of Your Life and Business Destiny
Nicolas Goorbarry
LEADERSHIP DEVELOPMENT Transformation Coach/Speaker | Trainer - | DISC/EQ Consultant | Business Strategist
#Thought Tuesday
Do you sometimes feel that your life and career are being guided by someone else's vision? It's so easy to fall into the trap of living according to the expectations and imaginations of others!!? Whether these be colleagues, society, or even well-intentioned friends and family. Recently, in my reading, I came across this statement, “if you leave the fate of your life up to the imagination of others, be prepared for a small life”.
It’s a difficult pill to swallow, but it’s the hard truth!!
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Outsourcing Our Dreams
When we allow others to dictate our paths, we end up playing small. ?We may find ourselves in a role that doesn’t excite us, or functioning on projects that don’t align with our passions.? Maybe even pursuing a career trajectory that feels unfulfilling! ?The imagination of others is often limited by their own experiences and fears.
To truly thrive, you and I must take the reins and be the author of your own story.
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Why Intentional Living is Essential for Leaders
As leaders—whether you’re leading yourself (always a great thing), C-Suite, an entrepreneur, or aspiring to make a significant impact—it’s imperative to take charge of your own destiny. Authentic leadership stems from living and leading with intention. When you define your path, you don’t just uplift yourself; you inspire and elevate those around you.
Authentic leadership stems from a place of personal empowerment and clarity, embracing ?your own vision, then encouraging those around you to do the same.
The Good News!!
It’s not too late to design to create and design your life!
What truly matters to you?? Take the time for introspection and identify what matters most to you!!? What drives you –- get you out of bed in the morning? Something that you ?are passionate about? Your core values and purpose will serve as your compass and point the direction for you.
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Dream big! The first time I was told that, I cringed – afraid to do so! Set goals that reflect your true desires…..not wants…..desires.? Wants conjure a scarcity mindset (more on that another time). ?Your goals should be bold enough to push you out of your comfort zone!? AND, they should align with your personal and professional aspirations.
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View challenges not as obstacles but as opportunities for growth, and EMBRACE them!! Shift your perspective! See setbacks as valuable learning experiences that propel you forward.? Evaluated experience is the best teacher.
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Nothing beats surrounding yourself with people who desire to grow and be their best.? So surround yourself with those individuals who support you, challenge you, make you accountable to be your best self. ?Seek mentors, peers, and collaborators who resonate with your vision and values!
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Sometimes we trip over ourselves when trying to take a big jump.? Here’s a secret - small, consistent actions compound over time. Each day, take a step—no matter how small—towards your goals. The thing about action is that it bridges the gap between your dreams and reality.? Without action, those dreams are just fantasy!
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Real-World Success Stories
Consider the journeys of people like Steve Jobs, Richard Branson, Michael Jordan, Elon Musk, Mahatma Gandhi, Jim Carrey (to name a few)! They didn’t allow others to dictate their destinies. Instead, they took bold steps, driven by their own visions, and built lives of extraordinary significance. Their stories remind us that true success comes from within and is shaped by our own intentions and actions.
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Transformational Leadership: The Ripple Effect
Having witnessed the incredible power of intentional living and leadership, I know what occurs when individuals take control of their destiny.? They not only transform their own lives but also create a ripple effect that inspires and empowers their teams and organizations. This leads to a culture of innovation, resilience, and unparalleled growth. People want to be next to them, as they send out the right vibes!!
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Your Call to Action
Don't let others script your life. Start today by taking one intentional step towards your true potential. Reflect on your core values, set audacious goals, and commit to daily actions that align with your vision.
Share your thoughts and experiences. Have you ever felt confined by the expectations of others? What steps are you taking to reclaim your narrative?
Connect and Transform: If this resonates with you and you’re ready to take charge of your life and career, let’s connect.
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My mission - "Be the change you wish to see in this world".