Who Is A Gaslighter? & How Do God Deal With Gaslighters?

Based on my LIFE, I was once a gaslighter and I certainly attracted people who also gaslight. This is one problem everybody has, why I said everyone is because people consciously or unconsciously tries to gaslight others and it’s important I expose?this to the public so people can be more aware of the people around them and ultimately try to protect your energy for your wellbeing.

Gaslighting is when someone tries to gain power and control over another person by distorting reality and forcing others to question their own reality. It is the choice or manipulation of a narcissist. Now you may think gaslighting is a new psychological phenomenon out there with all these talks about narcissistic people and stuffs, but right here and now I will be giving you the real spill and dark traits of this psychological problem.

Now many of us including me was a victim of gaslighting, to some they are currently being gaslighted and they don’t even know how bad it could be. Today we can see that our modern “RELATIONSHIPS & FRIENDSHIPS” is filled with narcissistic issues and if not properly dealt with it could lead to certain trauma and emotional baggages that could end up ruining your entire life.

In my relationships, people always try to “MIND CONTROL” me, and I know some men out there will call me WEAK, lol, I don’t blame you if you call it weak because indeed it’s the weakness of the mind and the issues of codependency that the victim is left?with. Many women and men tries to control their actions, life, and also the lives of others around them. Today a beautiful woman will feel comfortable cheating and double dating and when you try to leave that relationship they’d begin to make you feel that you are the problem. Some rains insults on you to make you self sabotage your own self and it’s totally wrong.

I’ve always dealt with a lot of them, male and female, even family members. They try to control your life and make you think that you will alway need them in your life. When I walked away from these toxic people, I began regaining my power and self awareness. At first I taught I was the problem, I know we all have our demons we battle with each day, IT’S UNHEALTHY TO PROJECT YOUR INSECURITIES ON SOMEONE ELSE. The problem of our society is the issue of unaccountability of their wrong doings. People will never take accountability of their demonic actions and wickedness. They will never blame themselves because they think it is never them. They will never access their actions to know where the problem is coming from, they are prideful of themselves, I dealt with lovers that are NEVER WRONG.?

They feel they are the ones doing you good because they are with you. It is not right, if your partner cannot take out their EGO to make the relationship work, you MUST leave such person at once, they are never ready to change. I know that nobody is perfect and holy, I also have my flaws and imperfections, for christ sake I am also a human being. So why expect perfection from my wife or spouse. People fuck up, I do fuck up. But the deference between me and you is “accountability”. I take accountability for my actions and that is facts!!

I have been really mistreated by this love thing, but I know love is also for me, I just have to keep my eyes out there for that person who will grow with me together, we deal with our imperfections and we try to be perfect for each other. I need a?woman to grow with, and someone who will also help me grow with God, not someone to will make me GASLIGHT GOD.

So my dearest friend, if my story resonates with you, then you also have to put yourself in GOD totally to heal you, GOD is the only person that healed my heart, body and soul. People gave up me too soon, God didn’t give up on me.?

I wept because I lived recklessly. My actions almost cost my life because I seemed to not be at peace with my soul. My family is now UNITED and WE are having the best moment of our lives because we know there’s better days ahead. People I lost and walked from, It is all for my good. I LET KARMA serve them back the same deeds they did to me. My silence speaks a lot, I let God speak for me while I stay silent and work on myself. WORK ON YOURSELF knowing that you can NEVER be perfect for anyone.?

YOU CAN NOT BE PERFECT, YOU LEARN AND YOU GROW.

I love you all, keep believing in GOD, I assure you things will be ok and you will be happy again.

Love and Light

Bazzy Francis