Who Else Will Tell You This?
Cheryl Grace
Executive Coach | Speaker | Change Management Specialist | Conflict Resolution Expert | We help companies reduce employee attrition, improve workplace culture, and retain top talent.
If you're a Black woman working in corporate, it's not new news that you often face unique challenges, including subtle yet pervasive microaggressions. These can manifest from seemingly innocuous comments such as, "You're so articulate." Or actions that undermine your achievements or capabilities – like when someone looks right past you for the "person in charge" when you are in charge, to being called on the carpet for being "overly aggressive" or consistently interrupted or talked over during meetings. These small but far too consistent behavioral traits can cause your confidence to falter or make you feel less valuable.
Use your accomplishments to combat microaggressive behavior and reinforce that you came to play full out. Periodt!
Don't let the actions of others impact your confidence, minimize your contributions, or make you feel "less than" or unimportant. It's an easy trap to fall into. Instead, use your accomplishments as power tools to combat such behavior and reinforce that you came to play full out. Periodt! Here are easy-to-implement ways to start:
Publicize and Celebrate Your Successes
One of the most effective ways to counteract microaggressions is to make your and your team's achievements visible. You should actively publicize your successes within your organization and broader professional networks. It can be as simple as including a recent win in your company's internal newsletter, via LinkedIn posts, or speaking at industry conferences. By highlighting your contributions and accomplishments, you not only bolster your professional profile but also challenge the stereotypical narratives that often fuel microaggressions in the first place.
When I worked in an office, I always had an accent wall I secretly called my "Wall of Intimidation." It included awards and plaques I'd earned side-by-side with photos of dignitaries and me (including three presidents), elected officials, and other influencers from all races. Why did I feel this was necessary? I worked in public affairs and was often out of the office. A lot! People assumed my job was easy and consisted of attending galas and special dinners. While that was a part of my responsibilities, it only told part of the story of how developing those relationships would/could help the company get essential items included on the agenda of city council meetings around the top 10 largest metropolitan cities my team and I oversaw. Or how those relationships could favorably impact the perceptions of the communities and consumers we served more positively.
The Wall of Intimidation provided a nonverbal narrative that the work my team and I were doing was necessary for the company, just as essential as finance, marketing, and sales. It added a layer of respect that helped disrupt any lingering biases about my abilities.
When you consistently highlight your milestones and achievements, you can build a solid professional brand that commands respect and acknowledges your true value. You may not have a Wall of Intimidation (yet), but as often as you can, take the time to share your wins and publicize your successes. Need more examples of how to? Try these:
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Moreover, publicizing your successes can inspire others and create a ripple effect of empowerment. When Black women see their peers celebrated for their accomplishments, it encourages them to strive for excellence and recognize their worth. This collective acknowledgment can gradually shift workplace cultures towards greater inclusivity and appreciation of diversity.
It's also beneficial to seek opportunities for formal recognition. You don't have to sit back and wait for someone to nominate you for an industry award. (It would be nice if they would, but honey, if you've spent more than five minutes working in corporate America, you know "nice" doesn't always happen on its own.) Apply for the awards yourself, seek nominations for leadership positions, and participate in programs highlighting successful professionals. Proactively pursuing and accepting these recognitions can further solidify your status as a leader and innovator in your respective fields.
Remember, we teach people how to treat us.
Although microaggressions can be a challenging aspect of a Black woman's professional life, it doesn't have to be your whole story. There are ways you can counteract those microaggressions while also paving the way for a more inclusive and equitable workplace. Empowerment through excellence is a testament to resilience and a step towards a future where every professional is valued for her true capabilities.
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5 个月My grandmother told me that saying "you teach people how to treat you" in my twenties and I live by it judiciously - across all relationships (work, friendships, family, romantic). Never has failed me.
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5 个月Very motivational message. Keep up the good work.
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5 个月Cheryl, here's an old cliche from the good ole days that parallels some of your thoughts. "She who doth not toot her own horn, that same horn doth not toot." Keep up the great postings. gw
Master Story-Teller
5 个月Dear Cheryl, the most HEARTBREAKING incidence is when your aggressor is ANOTHER BLACK WOMAN. I know. I LIVED it. ??