Who Do You Think You Are and What Gives You The Right To Post on LinkedIn?
How to finally silence that noisy hater in your head

Who Do You Think You Are and What Gives You The Right To Post on LinkedIn?

Anyone who has ever blogged, written a newsletter, podcasted, posted on LinkedIn or put anything online has come face-to-face with a version of this question:

“What makes you think you have the right to publish this?”

It’s prompted by a fear of looking stupid, being judged by others, or being wrong.

It’s a noisy hater in your head, questioning your credibility, criticizing you before anyone even sees what you’ve created.

It’s a mild form of Impostor Syndrome, a pesky mental tic that tells you that you are never good enough.

Over time, I’ve learned how to sidestep this line of thinking, silencing that noisy hater and giving myself the freedom to create, express myself, and add value to the world.

So if you’re ever dealing with this, keep the following in mind:

First, it’s a perfect example of a bad question.

This is a question based on a faulty assumption: 

"In order for you to publish something, you first need approval."

Well, not only is this untrue, it also happens to be a shitty mentality that you should never have in your life. A sure way to never get anywhere in life is to assume you need approval for everything.

Second, asking whether you have “the right” to publish things presupposes that there is some authority that bestows this right.

A brief reflection on this point makes you realize there is no such thing.

Third, think about how your content can help others.

If thinking about the semantics of the question isn’t enough, then consider how sharing your ideas can add value to the world.

Many people stop themselves from publishing their ideas because they think “that should be left to the experts.”

At first blush, that sounds reasonable.

But let’s think about how that would play out in practice.

If we say that only “experts” should blog and have public content — then we must first determine who qualifies as an expert.

This quickly gets very tricky: What is the criteria for an expert? Who decides? What makes them qualified to decide? And even in the case where we somehow do decide on who counts as an expert — we may find that these true apex experts are too busy to blog and write and podcast and publish on LinkedIn. Or that they will only share their knowledge for profit. Or they are terrible writers that can’t communicate their ideas. Or they don’t even care to share their ideas.

Look, there is a near-infinite continuum of skills and abilities. A novice to you may be an expert to someone else:

Take chess as an example.

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In The Queen's Gambit, the main character begins her chess journey by learning from the school custodian. He is a hobbyist and nobody would consider him a formal expert. But he is an "expert" to her; he teaches her what she knows, and she learns the rules of the game.

The main character then goes on to become one of the world's best chess players; first beating the players in her town, then her state, then her country and eventually in the world.

But something happens in the finale:

She faces her biggest challenge ...and she ends up needing help from people that she's defeated before!

There are two lessons here: “expert” is a relative term, and content can help people no matter what level they're at

Let’s say your chess skill is rated at 6/10.

There are 3s and 4s who would love to be a 6 like you. You don’t view yourself as an expert, but many people who rank lower than you do. They would love to learn from you and hear about how you got to a 6.

There’s always going to be someone smarter or more of an “expert” than you.

Focus on adding value for the people who are at your skill level and below.

And in some cases, even experts who are 10s benefit by reading content written by 5s. Because they get to challenge their beliefs and get a new perspective on things.

You have a voice. Use it.

At the end of the day, just create.

You have a voice; people can choose whether to listen to you or not. Don’t make the decision for them.

When you work up the nerve to perform in front of an audience, there’s always going to be some people who don’t like it.

And that’s okay. Because there are going to be a lot of people who do.

Marilyn Wong

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3 年

Always struggling with this. Never short of being judged and trolled. The reward and fun is in finding my own voice while doing it.

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Andrew Baisley

Co-Founder at Rockee | Visit rockee.co for premium borderless mobile phone plans.

3 年

Love this! “You have a voice; people can choose whether to listen to you or not. Don’t make the decision for them.”

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Tarandip Kaur

Content Strategist | B2C & B2B Content Marketing | SEO

3 年

Great article that serves as reminder for me. I've always had to struggle with the fear that my content may not be half as interesting or helpful compared to another expert. Time to get writing!

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Rohith Krishnan

Member Leadership Staff @ Zoho | Business Development, Business Analysis

3 年

Great article, David! I've never been able to shake this thought when it came to publishing something online. Now, I can just come back to this article whenever I am holding myself back. Thanks a lot! P.S: I even had to convince myself just to write a comment to this post and not leave it with a reaction. ??♂?

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Alfred Lua

Pebblely cofounder | Building in AI & exploring health tech

3 年

Oh, who do you think you are, Dave? ?? Jokes aside, I think many people, including me, need to hear this regularly. I tell myself I can help people a few steps behind me (like how I learn from people a few steps ahead of me) and I publish.

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