Who am I? Past’s Victim or Creator of Future Selves

I used to see myself as a victim of my past. I tended to view myself primarily as someone who had been harmed by negative experiences. But recently, I asked myself some important questions. Should I focus more on my present and future selves? Should I look at myself as the creator of my current situation?

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Rather than listening to inner monologues from the past, I decided to prioritize fresh actions based on present dialogues. I chose to hit the reset button - to see the world through the hopeful eyes of a recent graduate.

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Over the years, I developed strong opinions that I relied on for guidance, with the help of many supportive people and circumstances. In building that perspective, I also built an image of what help should look like in the future.

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When today does not match my past expectations and needs, clinging to them means I'm stuck in history. I realized I needed to start fresh. I decided to approach life open to learning, seeing everyone as potential helpers. I turned off the criticizing inner voice to focus on each real conversation. I regained the excitement of a creator visualizing the future.

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I asked myself, could I let go of old assumptions and rediscover the world? Could I build connections through open and positive communication? Could I shape my life's path by prioritizing human dignity and mutual understanding?

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The past can't be changed, but the present and future are mine to design. I choose to create, not criticize. I act to understand, not react with assumptions. I open my eyes each morning ready to learn. I build bridges, not barriers.

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With thoughtful self-reflection, I moved forward. I defined myself not by past pain but by the person I strive to become. I awakened my vision for contributing to human progress.

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The path requires continually hitting reset - rediscovering people and possibilities with an open heart. My past gives context but does not define me. I walk each day as the creator of my future self.

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Would you consider it? Could you hit reset?

Until next time, Cheers,

Amit