Which is harder: Saying what you want, or knowing what it is?
Dr. Laura Sicola
Founder: Laura Sicola Inc., TEDx Speaker w/ 6,900,000+ views, Podcast Host, Author, Executive Coach, Trainer, Speaker
I’m curious – Which is harder:?clearly articulating what you want, or simply knowing what it is in the first place??
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Let’s face it: The fact is, both can be?challenging.
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That’s a big part of why I make a vision board every January. It helps me see, in concrete terms, the future I want to create.
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My board is a collection of words, phrases, and pictures. Sometimes, I already have the ideas and feelings in my mind, but the pictures bring them to life—literally and figuratively.
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Other times, I find quotes or phrases that perfectly capture thoughts I can’t quite articulate on my own.
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It’s a way to turn abstract dreams into something tangible and?inspiring.
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This year, my 2025 board features a number of quotes that inspire and ground me, from Tim Cook’s confident foresight:
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“I’ve known for years we would get here. I didn’t know when, but I knew that we would arrive here”
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to Jimmy Carter’s wisdom:
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“Unless both sides win, no agreement can be permanent.”
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There are also single words like “family” and “grateful,” phrases like?“travel beyond your wildest dreams”?and?“everyone should be welcome at the table.”
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The images range from eagles and rocket ships to beaches and runners—some deeply symbolic, others more straightforward.
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Together, they all paint a picture of the life I want and the path by which I aspire to achieve it.
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But what’s most gratifying isn’t just creating a vision board; it’s the joy in knowing that I have a clear, exciting vision that I can share with anyone.
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Seeing it before me gives me clarity and purpose. Of course, the future will always hold surprises, and plans will need to evolve, but having a defined direction—and the willingness to adapt—keeps me grounded.
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This clarity is often?the hardest part of finding happiness:?figuring out what you truly want and how to make it happen. It’s a challenge I hear often, especially from leaders considering their next career move.
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For executives in transition, the questions can feel overwhelming:
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These are just some of the challenges we address in my?Quantum Leap: Executive Transition Coaching?program.
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It’s designed to guide leaders toward roles that don’t just pay the bills but ignite their passions and fulfill their purpose.
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If you’re?tired of feeling stuck, are ready to create a vision that excites you and discover a clear path to get there, learn more at?quantumleap-coaching.com?or just send me a message.
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Starting the year with a fresh vision isn’t just symbolic for me—it’s transformative and restorative. It reminds me that I need clarity around:
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So, what’s your vision for 2025? What goals have you set (hopefully in the past tense, as we discussed?last week )?, and how do you plan to make them a reality?
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Wishing you a year of clarity of thought, word and purpose.
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1 个月Dr. Laura, I loved this post because I believe if you don't have a "dream" you can't make a dream come true.
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1 个月Oh boy, perfect timing!
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1 个月Thanks for sharing this, Laura. This was both timely for me and quite refreshing as a "recovering New Year's 'resolutionist'" who is a bit disillusioned by new years plans. Your perspective has me rethinking my outlook for my 2025!
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1 个月Fantastic opening question Dr. Laura Sicola. I have found that as I've gained wisdom through experience and years, it's become easier to say what I know. The knowing always seemed to be there in my head, but I wasn't always sure about saying it. Would you say age plays a role in this (especially for women)?