Which excuses do you have? Just DO it!
Manuel Matos
International Change Maker | Soft Skills | Mentor | Counsellor | Challenge People to Reach their Potential
Those who want, do... the others, create excuses!
Have you ever noticed that some people, including you, can achieve, sustain and reach more and more results ? So easily, I′d dare say… from the others point of vue, of course, the grass is greener at the neighbour′s house.
Easy or not, it depends on the way you look at it. I′ve known people with terrible schedules, tons of meetings and responsibilities and yet they would have time for a coffee and a 5 minutes conversation. On the other hand, yes, you know, people pretending to be busy and having lots of excuses for not doing what they should do as basis.
In the end, I believe it is a question of frame of mind, of awareness. What is the impact on you and the others this "excuse" stuff is producing ? Why don′t people give you the best tasks or challeging projects ? "Why don′t they see my competence" ?
Question of perception – first of all, what are you transmitting to the world that returns to you in the form of behavior ? And secondly, what have you demonstrated and shown that makes them see that you are able to do it ?
Where are your comments in your daily situations usually ? Past, future oriented ? Focus on Solutions or Problems, Critics or Proposals ?
Do you really want to make things happen? Show it !! Change your language, your focus, your actions, they show everyone else what they can count from you.
Do people see you as Protagonist or just a Victim?