WHETHER AND HOW TO CONVEY HARD TRUTHS

(something that could be embarrassing or hurtful)

MOTIVE: Be sure and pure about your motives, they should be to help, not hurt.

TACT: Choose your words carefully; the way you put it is crucial.

TONE: Avoid sounding self-righteous or accusatory.

TIMING: Context matters. Pick a place and time that increases the likelihood of positive impact.