Where to Start for Your Desired Results
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Where to Start for Your Desired Results

I started Bryan Balch & Associates in February 2005, to help individuals and businesses achieve their desired results.

Regardless of what each client is striving to achieve, I start by pointing out we are blessed, every one of us, with the power of creation.

We can design and create our reality through our thoughts and actions.

In my initial discussions, whether it’s with an individual, a couple, a room full of employees, a business owner, or a board of directors, one common denominator is their ability to tell me what they want.?They want more success, a better marriage, more happiness, improved health, more love, more freedom, and more purpose, to name a few.

Without fail, there is a difference in what they want and what they are getting.?The difference is a result of inconsistent action.?They lack focused, purposeful, and consistent action.

Most of what each of us do, we do on an unconscious level.?It’s been scientifically proven, on a conscious level there are very few things we can do at once.?It is the unconscious mind that runs most people’s lives.

If you’ve ever walked into your house, turned on the TV, gone to the refrigerator and opened a beverage, while talking on the phone, you are being run by your unconscious mind.?If you’ve ever been driving somewhere out of the norm and accidentally took your normal exit by mistake, you were driving with your unconscious mind.?If you’ve ever walked into a room to get something and suddenly couldn’t remember what it was you were looking for, there was an abrupt switch between your conscious mind and unconscious mind.

If we ask the question, “Have I conditioned my mind to run at the highest level of excellence possible?”?Most of us would have to honestly say “no.”

With the recognition of not having a well-conditioned mind, most people immediately want to know “How do I condition my mind to run at the highest level possible?”

The answer to this question, how to tap into your greatness, to be at your best and become what you are capable of on a conscious and unconscious level, begins with your conversations.?Conversations you have with others and especially conversations you have with yourself.

This is why working on yourself is more important than working on your job.?If you’ve ever felt like things were going great and suddenly you self-sabotaged your success or you’ve watched others sabotage themselves, it happened and will continue to happen because of one reason.?There is a conflict between one’s conscious desires and one’s unconscious beliefs, values, or identity.

This is why your income will always meet you where you are at.?If a poor person making bad financial decisions suddenly wins the lottery and three years later has lost the money, it’s because the individual is still a poor person, making bad financial decisions, just on a grander scale.

If your inner voice is telling you, you’ll never amount to anything, that you are unworthy of a successful relationship, that you’ll never be beautiful, what do you think the chances are for you to achieve your desires for a successful career, a great marriage, and a loving family?

If your core values include honesty and integrity and you allow your business to buy inferior materials to increase profit margins, how long do you think you’ll experience success until it all falls apart? (Pun intended.)

In order for you, your relationships, and your businesses to achieve what you want most, your desires must align with your unconscious beliefs, values, and identity.

Are those you spend the most time with asking how they can help you make things happen? Or are they telling you it’ll never happen??Are the conversations you participate in about how to lift you and others around you or are the conversations dragging you down?

You cannot consume negativity on a regular basis and expect positive results.

While most people sit around waiting for something or someone to change, whether it’s the economy, the job market, their supervisor, or their spouse; maybe they’re waiting for the kids to be grown and move out on their own; don’t let that be you!

You have the power within you, so much power, that if you change, everything around you will change.?That power is the greatness within you!

If you’re not sure how to bring that greatness out, how to change the conversations you participate in, find someone to help you.?Do not be afraid to ask for help.?People often get held back worrying about how much it will cost.?A better question to ask, is how much is it costing you, your relationships, and businesses not to change your conversations?

Remember, there is greatness within you. You have to choose greatness. It won’t develop on its own. I believe in you!

“To reach your potential, to achieve your dreams, you cannot remain where you are.”

Take Action Today!

If you would like assistance with changing your conversations and achieving your desired results, I can help you. We can meet by phone, through Zoom, or at a mutually convenient location. Whether you choose me or someone else, a coach will expedite your results. All change is best supported through consistent guidance and practice.

If you found value in this article, please share with others. You never know who else in your network may find it valuable. Thank you!

I appreciate you. I know your time is limited and I hope you receive value in reading my posts.?

I also invite you to connect with me. You can connect with me on LinkedIn, by email at?[email protected]?or through my website?at?www.bryanbalch.com. Thank you!??

I always look forward to your thoughts and replies.

Published by Bryan M. Balch, Results Coach

Helping Individuals and Businesses Achieve Desired Results

Erik FlemingFiveGeez

Behavioral Counselor at AK Bean Foundation

1 年

Appreciate the perspective.

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