Where Is The Monotony Where It Feels Like You’re Living a Life That Isn’t Yours?

Where Is The Monotony Where It Feels Like You’re Living a Life That Isn’t Yours?


If I were to sit down and ask you what the vision you have for your life is, would you know what to say?

No? Then I'm gonna call you out on this and it's time to get clear.

If you do...

Are the actions that you're taking every single day in alignment with the version of you that has already accomplished these things? Or is that vision slowly fading away?

Or maybe you've been becoming who others think you should be or who you think others think you should be. This could look like:

  • Staying close to home to stay safe
  • listening to those who say you're crazy for wanting your own business or lifestyle
  • trying to live up to others expectations or people pleasing
  • avoiding confrontation and playing small
  • losing yourself in parenthood
  • seeking validation or the opinion of others
  • Not sure who your authentic self really is

I've seen what happens when someone doesn't truly step into their authentic self creating their lifestyle in the way in which they desire and holding this vision is what keeps me so driven towards my purpose each day.

It's looked like loved ones drinking a bottle of vodka per night.

and a loved one attempting suicide as a way out of a life they don't want to live anymore.

I know what happens 20, 30, 40 years down the line when you continue showing up living in a way that doesn't feed your soul. It's terrifying.

So I'm going to ask you now:

Where are the shackles holding you back from everything you desire?

Where are others projecting their fears onto you that you're making your own?

Where is the monotony where it feels like you’re living a life that isn’t yours?

We can't create the vision for our life if we aren't even sure who we are, because we may even not even be able to see yet. Now we need to become that future self today so we can begin upgrading our life to become an energetic match to what we are seeking.

What you seek is seeking you... but it can't seek you if you don't even know what you're seeking.

Brick by brick the foundation of your life was set by seeing others settle, having them belittle your dreams etc... however, YOUR belief of those bricks that make up your foundation act as the cement that holds it together based on how we've perceived the world around you.

It's like the example of the elephant who tries to free himself from the stump holding him captive and he can't break free... when he's all grown up and strong enough he doesn't even try any more because he doesn't believe he can do it... but we all know if he had the courage to try again - those rangers better watch out.

It's time to find where you're still tied to the stump. What if you finally realized that no one was coming to save you?

The beautiful part? You can tear that foundation to the ground and rebuild from a place of stability - fully aligned with your purpose.

I believe our life's purpose is to be the creator of our reality and become truly free - free from the shackles of who we think we should be to truly harness the power of becoming.

Freedom is you allowing yourself to be everything you are meant to be. We are here to experience all the highs and lows life has to offer and you're meant to fully feel your vision TODAY.

That's what it's like to feel alive, don't hold yourself back from the experience.

I'll leave you with a few prompts:

What is the vision I have for my life?

How can you begin to embody the version of yourself that brings tears to your eyes because you’re so damn excited?

What shackles do I need to release?

?? If you'd like help mapping out this vision and figuring out how to unshackle yourself to the current reality that exists I encourage you to book your complimentary breakthrough session below!

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p.s. together, we can change the world.

Steven Brennan Jr.

We Don't Just Create Video. We Make Impact. | Founder and CEO at BNV |??? Host of Commercial Free Podcast

2 年

Jamie I love how you bring up what we are searching for is already looking for us as well! It is amazing to have that awareness!!

Nitesh Singh

Country HR ROI at Nokia IMEA

2 年

Much Appreciate

Maggie Flores

Creating a life that feels good on the inside ??

2 年

This is absolutely amazing, and exactly what I’m going through. Without a step missed. Great writing!

Laurie Sudbrink

Lead With GRIT | 25 Years of Changing Lives Through Leadership | Author | Follow for posts about leadership, wellness and GRIT!

2 年

I love the elephant story Jamie Kullman ! Another great message here, thank you !!

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