Where The Fear Conversation Originates And How To Control It

Almost everyone is afraid of something. For young children it may be the boogie man who lives in their bedroom closet, for a teenager it may be not getting the right date to the prom. For most people, the things to be afraid of multiply with age. I remember being fearful when my kids started to drive and a good portion of that fear boiled down to remembering how irresponsible I was when I was their age! There never was an issue and they always made it home safe.

The reality is fear is a conversation in your head about what could go wrong. This is a conversation you created. This is a conversation you reinforce on a moment-to-moment basis. Working from a place of fear means you only consider only what can go wrong with only has fleeting moments considering what can go right. The human brain is designed to make you right whenever possible so the more focus you place on something, the more likely the outcome. This works for both a positive and a negative outcome.

I work from the what can go right point of view while managing the what can go wrong reality and then handle those items on an immediate basis. Urgency matters! This is not about telling yourself everything will be fine and then moving on. This comes down to paying close attention to outcomes and controlling what you can control. When my kids started driving, I set a reasonable curfew and it was enforced. Violations had immediate consequences with the intent that those consequences served to prevent irresponsible behavior. I was fortunate but not lucky and there is a difference.

If you are having an issue that generates the fear emotion its important to understand that fear anywhere creates fear everywhere. A conversation is a great place to get at least a toe hold on changing that fear to empowerment. Let’s at least talk about what’s next and what you can control. I can help.

My name is Steven Clauson.??I coach?people who want help getting where they want to be. ?The people I coach are typically already taking action, getting results and?ask what’s next and what actions to take?to make an even?greater impact.? They aren't afraid to ask for help. ?How can I help you? ?What actions are you taking???Those who have a plan and implement that plan lead the pack.? Planning, preparing to win and taking appropriate action means you?hear the word?"YES"?more than ever.?Only if you are one of the few willing to take action, do what's required and?play full out?are you likely to hear the word yes more often. ?People hearing the word?"YES"?are winners?on the playing field because they play full out and dominate.? For these?people?results matter.? Tired of results?less than you know you can produce???Call me at 916-230-0176 or visit?www.assaultmarketing.com

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